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Julie, It is so comforting to know that families are forever and you will reunite with them again someday. Jace and Sheldon were so lucky to have you as a wife and mother and I know that they knew that!! We love you so much and are in our thoughts and prayers daily. -Heather
Julie, I love you so much! I know you can get through this...it's going to take time, but you can do it. You are such a strong woman and have always been a great example to me. I look up to you so much. You've always been there for me through my trials and I want you to know that I'm here for you now. You have so many friends and family members that love and care for you and want to help. I know Jace and Sheldon are together. Find comfort in the fact that they have each other and you can one day reunite with them. They will be watching over you as guardian angels. I love you! Natalie
Julie, I want you to know what an amazing woman you are. You are strong and faithful, loving and kind. Please know we are praying for you and your family to get you through this tough time. May angels be watching over you and giving you the courage you need. Love to you, Stacy
I know you don't know me, but I am married to one of Thomas Ellsworth's cousins. Since I saw Natalie post about this sad tragedy you have been in my thoughts and prayers. As a mother of 3 boys myself, I cannot imagine what you are going through. I know you are very loved by your family and friends, and they are there to help you through this tragic accident. Find comfort in the knowledge of the Gospel and that families are forever. You will be reunited with your sweet little boy and your loving husband again. May you find peace and comfort through the acts of kindness that is and will be shared with you during this tough time. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Love,
Dearest Julie, I have never met you but your sister Natalie shared your story. Please know that you have so many people praying on your behalf, including myself. My the Lord hold your heart in His hands as you face each moment of each day. I pray that you may find comfort in our Heavenly Father's love and the angels that are surely all around you helping you through this most difficult time. Hugs and Love,
I am so glad that you will have the words of family and friends to help you through this terrible ordeal. Know that many, many prayers are being said for you and your family. I am sure that you have best angels up there watching over you in your time of need! Your devout faith will help you through this and help you to what comes next. You were always an example of faith growing up.
I know that our paths have not crossed for many years, but I do remember you and that awesome Galler family as some of the greatest people out there! I am sorry for your loss, and will pray for you. I know that the Savior will help carry your burden, and that the many prayers being said for you will give you strength.
Kristin Bennett Hoffmann( Heather's old mission comp:)
Julie, I have been praying for you since I heard last night, I'm so sorry I have such fond memories of how sweet you all are...I wish I was there so I could give you a great big hug, but all I can do is pray that Heavenly Father can do that instead. I pray he will give you that great big hug that you need right now. I will fast for you this Sunday....Love Sister Dorsey
Julie, I have just not been able to keep you out of my thoughts. I know you have amazing faith and that if anyone can make it through a trial like this that it is only through the tender mercies of the Lord. I am so thankful to know how much faith you have and that will be available to you whenever you seek His comfort. I just loved that little Jace. My heart breaks for you to know how deeply you loved these boys and all the questions you must face at this time. I just hope that for now you can find a way through these next few days and from there, we will do all we can to lift and support and love you through this. I know that Sheldon loved Jace and this was a mistake any parent could have made and that you will find a way to understand and make peace with what has happened. You were both amazing and loving parents and one of the most wonderful amazing families. I hope and pray for your comfort and peace now and always, love~ Char
My heart just broke when I heard about this. I was so impressed with you and Sheldon as YW/YM leaders. I appreciated your testimony and willingness to serve - and the love you shared with the girls -- with the youth - and with the ward. It was a very special year for me and I have missed you. My love, thoughts and prayers are with you. -- Sherelyn
I'm so sorry . I can't speak for jace's birthmom, but being a birthmom myself I'm grateful for you and the wonderful life, the eternal life, u gave that little boy in his visit to this world. I can't imagine your heartbreak, but thank you for the wonderful gift that u and your husband gave that special boy. He is living the promise you gave him.
Our daughters just informed Nanette and me of this very sad news. We are so sorry for this loss and please know that we will be praying for you and your families.
Julie, I do not know you and your family but we too have lost family to that lake. When I saw it on the news my heart went out to you and yours. I also live in Shelton. God Bless you and give you strength to endure. Healing prayers winging your way and just letting you know we care...
I never met Sheldon or Jace, but have known Julie for many years and love and respect her. From the first time meeting Julie and her fun family on a rafting trip down the Colorado, we connected. Our hearts have been saddened by this event, but want Julie to know we are there if needed. Our prayers are with you. My student ward has included you in their prayers. May the comfort of our Heavenly Father be with you always. Love, Chris, Deena and Ben Justice
Julie, I cannot express how heart wrenched we are over this. It is shocking to so many of us who knew you, Sheldon, and your wonderful beautiful boy Jace. There is no way to easily overcome something so tragic and sudden. I cannot imagine the pain you must be going through. Sheldon and Jace will simply be missed for many years to come. Events like this don't ever seem to have any good reason for happening. The only comfort we can draw on is the sure knowledge that someday we will see our loved ones again. I keep thinking that at least Shelton will be there to take care of Jace. You are in our hearts and prayers. Tom and Heidi Alsop
Much love and support sent your way. Sheldon will always shine on! Always a smile shared, never not laughing, always calm, very dedicated and such an impact to everyone ever in contact!!!! You are so very blessed to have shared so much with Sheldon. I am still so dumb struck that out of the blue to have such a devistating accident. Much love and support to you!
I am sorry for what you have to travel through. This journey is not an easy one. Since I first heard of this tragedy I have not stopped thinking of your little family. My heart aches for you, yet I know how strong you are and how amazing you are. The best part is you have so many people who love you and will stand there to hold you up as you continue down your path. You have always been such a great example to me with your testimony of the Gospel. Some pain never goes away, but it does become less painful. Sheldon is a great father and a great man. It is clear how much he loves you. Jace was a beautiful baby and is a sweet boy. One day the three of you will be together again never to be separated again. Much love for you and your family.
Julie, It's hard to put into words the sorrow that is in my heart. Mike and I love having Jace in the nursery over this past year. He was everything a 2-1/2 year old should be. He was loving, fun, energetic, caring, funny and so loved by you and Sheldon. Every Sunday, he would ask for "The Itsy Bitsy Spider" song, which we sang every Sunday. We love you, we are praying for you and we are hear for you if you need us.
With so much love in our hearts, Your eternal friends,
Julie, Your friend, Charlyn, shared your story with me. My heart goes out to you and your family. Please know that you are in my prayers. I pray that you will be comforted by the Spirit, feel of Heavenly Father's love and mindfulness of you, and that you will feel the love of your husband and little boy on the other side of the veil. Much love, Karin Dance
My heart has been aching for you since I heard what happen. It's been so long since I've seen you and Sheldon but I can still remember what an amazing couple you both were and how kind and fun Sheldon always was. I've been praying that you feel comfort in knowing that Jace and Sheldon are waiting for you together. You and your family will continue to be in my family's prayers,
I am Julie Savage's mom. Julie and her husband, Mike, were Jace's nursery teachers. I live in Bountiful, Utah. She told me about your tragedy and I am so terribly sorry. Julie suddenly lost her younger brother, my son, two years ago and our family will always carry that pain. You can turn to her for understanding, as she knows somewhat of what you are experiencing. Please know that even though your world is falling apart, our Father in Heaven knows who you are and will give you the strength to endure the rough days and weeks ahead.
Julie....My heart is just aching for the trial you must face. Please take comfort and knowledge that you will be reunited again. We do not know and understand why these things happen. The Savior knows and will see you through this difficult time. Your husband and son will be around you always and help you in your life until you see them again. I know this for certain. Your friends and family will surround you with love and understanding, and most of all the Savior will carry you until you can do it on your own. Thinking and praying for you this day Your sister in the gospel......Becky
Praying for your strength and that God's comfort guides you through this difficult journey. Through four years of optometry school, Sheldon lightened the mood in the classroom with his incredible sense of humor. My heart aches for you... continued prayers for you and your families.
Dear Julie, I am so sorry for your loss! I didnt know Jace that well but I knew Sheldon, he was my eye doctor. I have seen both of them around the church many many times. I plan on attending your funeral. Praying for you and your family.
Julie, When I read the news the kids first word to me was "prayer". We have been and will continue to pray for you and your family. We know you are amazing and can get through this. Just remember that your savior is there for you always and knows what you are going through. Trust in him. We love you! Luke and Lora
Our little family is and will continue to pray for you. I have such good memories of your sweet family. I wish there were words enough to express our heartbreak for you. May our Savior carry you through this incredibly difficult time.
Dearest Julie, I used to be in your ward, though I don't think we have met. I am so sorry to hear of your great loss. May the peace that passes all understanding be there to comfort you during this difficult time. I have seen this peace on the countenances of several young parents when they have experienced this type of loss. My prayers will be with you now and in the coming days. With love, Charlotte Cline
We have never met, but my family is close friends with the Suttons and I heard about what happened through them. Words just cannot express how sorry I am to hear that you are going through this. Just know that there are people all over the world praying for you and that you are not alone. We are sending all of our love and support to you and hope that you can find moments of peace in between emotions that will renew and restore you.
Love, Candice, Trent, Delaney, Mia and Bodhi Bemish Phoenix, AZ
I cried for you tonight. My heart aches for your loss. I am Michelle Vandermyde's sister in law. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We are pleading with the Lord to offer you His comfort. Much love.
Julie, I knew Sheldon from the Upward Bound program in high school. I remember his warm and friendly smile. He always had such spunk. I am so terribly sorry for the loss you have experienced. Please know that you are in my prayers. Always remember that with the knowledge of the gospel we know that families are forever. Sheldon and Jace are there preparing for you and watching over you even now. May the peace of our Lord and Savior be with you now.
I went to Optometry school at Pacific in the class ahead of Sheldon. I was his Optics TA during his first year.
My heart goes out to you with the deepest of sympathies. I am praying for you and have asked my friends & family to do the same. I know you are a woman of faith, and I hope you will cling to that in the days, weeks, & months to come. This life can be so hard & full of terrible things that aren't fair are are beyond explanation. Trust in the life to come & that you will see and be reunited with your loved ones again. Until that time, I pray that GOD will hold you in the palm of his loving hands, give you peace & healing, & guide you along the path he has planned for you.
With all the love & compassion in my heart, Kristen Kingsbury Minneapolis, MN
Words fail. We mourn with you from near and far. I trust that our tomorrows will be brighter than our todays. Just wait for them. We are with you in every thought.
I can't even begin to imagine your depth of pain, but know that my heart and prayers go out to you. You have always impressed me as such a strong, faithful and very loving woman. The couple of times I saw you and Sheldon with Jace I could tell what fantastic parents you are. Please know that I am thinking of you at this time. Much love, Erin Glabe
Dear Julie, My thoughts and prayers are with you in this very trying time. I had the pleasure of going to Optometry school with Sheldon for four years. I will always remember Sheldon as being a very kind and funny guy. He definitely made all of us in the back rows laugh with his witty remarks. When I would be late for class, Sheldon who normally sat in the back row, would push his chair back so I wouldn’t be able to get through, his attempt to embarrass me a bit more for walking into lecture late. What I'll remember most about him though, is the sheer joy in his eyes when he spoke about his family, especially Jace. I remember seeing him walk around the Pacific campus with Jace in his stroller many times. Jace was such an incredibly beautiful child and very blessed to have two loving parents like you and Sheldon. My heart is heavy for their loss and you will continue to be in my prayers. Please remember that you will always be a part of our greater family in the Class of 2011.
I heard of the tragic news today and have not stopped thinking and praying for you. I cannot imagine what you are going through. This is something that nobody should have to go through, but your support network and faith will help you during this tough time.
We at Pacific are shaken by this tragedy and I know we are here for you and your family. I will never forget Sheldon's smile and laugh, as he displayed these often. He was such a wonderful individual and I can only imagine how great of a family man he was. My family and I are sorry for your loss and will pray for you. God bless.
Fraser C. Horn Faculty at Pacific University College of Optometry
I remember taking newborn Jace's pictures with you and Sheldon, and seeing the true joy and love in the hearts of long awaiting parents. The smiles above in the picture posted here on this page show an even greater joy an eternal family, each smile telling the story of happiness, togetherness, love and true joy. Pictures do say a thousand words to me.
The words of Elder Holland completely express the emotion and belief we both have that will be your sustaining power,
"But in times of special need, He sent angels, divine messengers, to bless His children, reassure them that heaven was always very close and that His help was always very near... I testify of angels, both the heavenly and the mortal kind. In doing so I am testifying that God never leaves us alone, never leaves us unaided in the challenges that we face. “[N]or will he, so long as time shall last, or the earth shall stand...
"I will go before your face. I will be on your right hand and on your left, … my Spirit shall be in your [heart], and mine angels round about you, to bear you up.” D&C 84:88
All our prayers, condolences, love and hope of faith for you dear Julie.
Julie, Although I do not know you, after reading all the wonderful things previous people have posted about you, your husband and sweet baby boy I feel like I know you and them. I am so sorry for your loss. I just pray that you can get through this trying time and see that Heavenly Father has control and would not give you more then you can handle. He is there for you will see you through this.
Julie, Words truly fail me right now... It's been a while since I've seen you, and maybe we weren't even the closest friends back in school. But it doesn't matter. I love you. And I mourn with you. I am so, so sorry. Love, Sarah Gubler
Julie, Your time spent in our ward was so memorable, whenever you bore your testimony I could feel your love of your family & our savior. I pray that you can hold onto that during this time. Please know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I pray that love and faith in our Savior will be your companion now and always. Debi Heintz
Julie, I have never met you, but Sheldon and I were in the same MTC district. He was always the life of the party and helped everyone work hard and stay positive. My heart aches for you. I am so, so sorry for your loss.
I cannot imagine your sorrow, and we may know each other some. I hope you know that you are not alone, and that others will mourn with you and comfort you. Look for happiness in the little things, and be sad when you need to. I am so sorry.
Julie, My guess is that this all very overwhelming and that it may take time for you to read through all these comments and expressions, I hope they are healing. I know I have never met you, but know Sheldon from high school. I would think you would appreciate knowing that everyone thought of him as such a nice guy. I walked through the graduation line with Sheldon, and when I read the story, I had to post immediately. When I posted the story on Facebook asking for prayers, the comments have been all about how great he was. That speaks volumes about his integrity, something you know very well. I hope it is comforting to know that so many of us that went to school with him remember his kind personality. While I don't understand completely all your feelings, I understand the fear of losing your spouse as my own husband has terminal brain cancer. My heart aches for you and I am praying for the enabling power of the atonement (that I have a strong personal testimony about) to somehow buoy you up and let you feel the prayers of those around you. Kristen Baumgarten (Vernal, Utah)
I don't even know where to begin... Sheldon was an amazing person. He was always kind to those he associated with. He was fun and had a great sense of humor. I can't even comprehend the deep sorrow you must feel. Know that so many people have you in their prayers. I hope that you can feel the peace that comes from the prayers of so many. Heidi Morton (Vernal, UT)
I don't even know your family, but I'm friends of Sheldon's brother Lance and after I read your story I just started crying. This journey ahead will no doubt be hard. I've watched others who had gone through tragic deaths and experienced deep sorrow and a closeness to Heavenly Father, I have admired them for their faith and courage. You will now be one of those people I admire, I know angels will wrap you up in a warm blanket of comfort. Sincerely, Lara Wallace (Vermillion, SD originally Orem, UT)
Dear Julie, I heard about your story through mutual friends. I am so sorry for your tragedy! Your story touched my heart and I wanted you to know that you will be in my prayers and the prayers of my family! http://www.lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?locale=0&vgnextoid=bd163ca6e9aa3210VgnVCM1000003a94610aRCRD&channelId=bd163ca6e9aa3210VgnVCM1000003a94610aRCRD&sourceId=b63b822d7ecc8210VgnVCM100000176f620a____ Sara Holyoak
Julie, We are all heartbroken for the loss of Sheldon and Jace, but I know that our suffering is completely superficial to the amount of pain you must be feeling right now. Even so, your last blog post showed me what a strong and faithful woman you are. I can tell that you're relying on Heavenly Father and Jesus, and I pray that they will comfort you and help you through this horrible time. We love you so much, and we will always remember Sheldon and Jace for the wonderful and fun people that you shared so many adventures with.
Words can not even express how sorry I am for your loss! I can't even imagine the pain you are going through right now. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Julie, Galler's and Olson's, Please know how loved you are and how many prayers are being sent in your behalf. I am so sorry for the pain that you are going through. May the Lord comfort you during this time. Love, Julie Steadman
My heart is aching for you. I'm not sure you knew but my family, Luke and our kids, are preparing to be sealed in the Las Vegas Temple next month. I know right now must be a very difficult time to find any peace, but I know that you have a strong testimony of the Temple and of eternal families. I know that you know that your time with your family does not end here. I know that you know that your Heavenly Father loves you and KNOWS your pain. I know that you are strong and that while your road will be difficult it is possible for you to come through this. Please hold tight to what you KNOW. I love you! My family is fasting and praying for you!
Dear Julie, I am friends with Lance and Heidi here in Orem. Heidi has been such a wonderful friend that I have felt like family and in turn, deeply feel the sorrow of your loss. I wish I had some words to say to help you but I know that no words can ease the pain of your loss at this time. Please know how much you are loved and that thousands of people are praying for you to receive comfort now. I wanted to tell you that I relayed the story to my younger sister in Kentucky and asked her to have her family and friends to pray for you. She told me that she explained to her 7 year old daughter what happened to your family and little Lucy sat down and sobbed for you. Lucy's prayers are potent, believe me, and I know she will keep praying for you for months. That is just how she is. I am so grateful for eternal families! May you find comfort soon. ~Spanky Dunne
I am so very sorry for your loss. Something my father has always told us of young children taken back to our Father is that their spirits are just too special to be tainted with the hardships that are brought with this mortal trial. I know you have been told this, but remember that you have them for eternity. They are with you. You and your family and loved ones are in our prayers.
I was in Sheldon's Optometry Class. We had met a few times but I am sure it must have been somewhat overwhelming with trying to keep us all straight. I just wanted you to know that you are in my prayers and I am so sorry for your loss and cannot even imagine the pain and hurt you are going through. Sheldon was any amazing person and I feel lucky to have been able to know him and be part of his life even for just a short period. Stay strong and know that so many people are thinking and praying for you! Ashlee Mills-Fischer
Julie, I'm soo sorry about Sheldon and Jace...I still can't believe it! You are in our prayers. I try not to think about what has happened and I'm trying to focus more on where they are now and what they might be doing now. I'm glad they are together but soo sad that you are left alone. I still remember the day when you guys told us that you were going to adopt Jace. You guys where soo happy and had that assurance that it was meant to be...and it was. We never saw you guys raise Jace because we moved back to Utah, but I know you guys were great parents to Jace and loved him very much! Sheldon is such a great guy and he'll be missed. I remember when I moved to Vernal and how nice he was to me...he was a great friend. I remember how you guys meet and what a perfect couple you guys were from the very beginning. In fact, I remember when Sheldon told me that he was going to ask you to marry him and how perfect you were for him and how much he'd loved you...and you guys were only dating about a month. -That's instant love Julie! You are such a patient, wonderful, loving person Julie and my heart goes out to you that you'll make it thru these hard times. I can't wait to see your family together again! I really, really can't wait! That will be the best reunion!! Until then...I hope and pray that this vail that is placed upon us is thinned for you and that you may feel his love and Jace's love that they have for you and that they may bring you comfort, love, and peace! -Danny
My mind still can't grasp what you have to go through at this time. My heart aches for you and my prayers go out to give you strength to make it through these tough times. I unfortunately never got to meet Jace, but I know you two were perfect parents. I have many fond memories of you and Sheldon dating and feel blessed to have known him. I remember one of the first times I was around Sheldon when we all went rollerblading. Then Sheldon, you and I ended up rollerblading all the way up to the temple, needless to say I felt like the fifth wheel...We then ended up hiding and rollerblading back to the apartment complex without him. He showed up about 30 min later... Every time he was around, his goofy personality lit up the room. I remember the last time I saw you guys when you were visiting California. You were just as much in love years later as you were in the beginning of your relationship. And even though I was going through hardships in my relationship and divorce, observing you two gave me hope that there was a person out there that I can have a perfect relationship with. I always looked up to you Julie, from the moment I met you, I knew we would be friends. Your kindness, outgoing personality, unselfishness drew everyone to you. I love you and you will always be my friend. I know there isn't much I can do at this moment to bring you comfort and consolation, but I want you to know that my home is your home, you are part of my family. If there is ever anything that you need, whether it be talking in the middle of the night, needing a place to stay, literally anything...I am here for you. I love you. Be strong. -Masha
Julie, My heart goes out to you. I can't believe what has happened and I am so, so, sorry. I remember when I first met you guys, I thought you guys were so fun to hang out with. You and Sheldon are such a wonderful couple. We had great times together. I wish we had gotten a chance to get to know your adorable son, Jace. When we hung out in OR you guys were so sweet to our kids. Sheldon always played with our kids and they loved him. Taylor remembers you guys and your slide in your backyard. My kids love you too! Julie, you are such a beautiful person and I have always admired you. I hope that you know that you are in my prayers and I'm thinking of you at this hard time. My parents also wanted you to know that they love you and are thinking of you. They enjoyed getting to know you guys, and they thought Sheldon was so funny. I like how my Mom said this about Sheldon and Jace.."they are literally on the other side of the door." I love you and pray that you will find peace and comfort. Melanie
I don't know you Julie, but I knew your husband in high school. I just remember him being so nice and thoughtful for a kid his age. I didn't know him well, just had a couple classes with him, but I knew him to be a good kid. My heart breaks for you. I have a son the same age as Jace. I can't comprehend the loss you must feel at this time, but I want you to know you are in my prayers as a mother, to another mother and wife. Stay strong! Tiffany Reed
Julie, I don't know you, but since hearing the news of your family's tragedy, I haven't been able to stop thinking of you and your sweet family. I am an adoptive mother of a 2 and a half year old also and I just want you to know that your adoption family loves you and are praying for you. Kamarie Schiess
I don't know if you remember me from highschool but since seeing Heather's post I have not been able to stop thinking about you. Like you, my husband and I have fertility struggles and I was talking with him last night about how I wish we could know the why's of certain things. My heart just aches for you knowing how long you fought to have your precious family. I understand you were in the process of your 2nd adoption and I pray that family knows of the love you need right now and you will be blessed with that baby. I also hope you are able to be close to the Lord during this time and know you WILL be with your eternal family again. I am reminded of a talk at the last conference by Elder Cook in which he says "While we do not know all the answers, we do know the important principles that allow us to face these tragedies with faith and confidence" Amanda (Dalton) Stewart
Julie, I haven't been able to stop thinking about you and your family since I heard the tragic news. I am so sorry for your loss. I remember seeing you and Sheldon begin to date that semester we lived together at BYU. You guys were just such a happy, fun-loving couple. There are just some couples that you see and you instantly know they were made for one another. I always felt that way about you two. I also remember reading your adoption profile a couple months back and I was just brought to tears by the depth of love that was so evident in your descriptions of each other. I remember thinking then that a child would be so richly blessed by having you two as parents. I can't imagine what you must be going through right now, but I do know the Lord's promises are true. He won't leave you comfortless. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Robyn Kotter
Sheldon and I were classmates in optometry school. The thing I remember and appreciated most about him was his sense of humour.Even on days when everyone was stressed about a test, Sheldon would crack a joke and lighten the mood for us all. I remember when Jace came into your lives he was so happy! He was showing everyone sitting around him pictures and just had a look of sheer happiness on his face. I know he was young in his career but I know he was a great optometrist as well as friend. I think I can speak for all of us in the class of 2011 when I say that this news has saddened us all immensely. I have had you in my thoughts and prayers and will continue to do so. I am so so very sorry for your loss. -Natalie Coon
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i dont know you mammas but i do feel your pain lots of love your way.... sun is shine'n girl... sun is shine'n
Julie, There are not words to express the sorrow I feel for your loss. I am so. so. sorry. My heart is breaking for you. Although I haven't seen you much the past few years, I always think of you as another "little sister" and I love you like family! I wish you didn't have to suffer like this and I know that I can't say anything that will make it better - but please know that my family has been praying for you constantly since Sunday. You are on my mind frequently. I have a prayer in my heart for you always. I also have friends that have been moved by your experience and are praying for you, as well. There are so many people mourning with you. You are loved. The Lord loves you. He will strengthen you and give you peace during these difficult times. My husband has experienced the loss of a brother due to an accident and his words of caution are to not get caught up in the "what ifs" - you can "what if" forever and it only makes it worse. Easier said than done, though, we know. I love you and am sending a gigantic hug your way. I wish I could do more... Jenn Bowler
I was a classmate of Sheldon's in optometry school. He often sat in front of me in class and was always lightening the mood with his sense of humor and bright smile. We were also in the same clinic group 3rd year and on internal rotation together 4th year. Our group always had so much fun working together and I think that was largely in part due to Sheldon's fun personality. I can remember a few short days after Jace was born how proud he was to show pictures to everyone around him with a huge smile on his face. I cannot begin to express how sorry I am for your loss. Sheldon was an amazing person, so full of life and love for his family. I feel very fortunate to have known Sheldon for those four years of our lives. My heart aches for you and your families. Please know that I am thinking about you everyday and hope that you find strength to get through this very difficult time.
Julie, I know you don't know me but, I knew Sheldon in high school. He was so kind and always kept people laughing. As a mother and wife myself my heart aches for you and I send you my prayers. I was lucky to know Sheldon and any woman that would marry him had to be amazing as well. Your little boy is darling and I hope you feel that he is in good hands. My wish is that you feel our Heavenly Father embrace you at this time of need. -Beth
I found out about this tragedy through my cousin, who lives in Shelton. You don't know me but my heart goes out to you. I pray you find strength and peace.
Julie, I am so very sorry for this terrible tragedy that has come upon you. You are in my thoughts and prayers daily that you will feel strength and the peace of acceptance during this time of healing. We don't know why these things happen but know that God will take care of you always. I hope to see you sometime soon in Las Vegas. Take care. Carol (Heather's Mom)
Julie, I have been thinking about you and your family a lot these last few days. My heart aches for you and the heartbreak you must be feeling. I am so sorry that tragedy has struck your beautiful family. You are, and will continue to be, in my thoughts and prayers during this time of grieving and finding the strength to heal.
I don't want to just repeat what has been said, but, I also find that I have nothing greater that I can add.
My heart is broken for you. I've only met you once at church but I knew immediately how wonderful you, your husband, and sweet Jace were together.
Please know that if there is anything you need, I will do the best I can to help. We have an extra car, if your family needs to borrow it while here... anything else, please don't hesitate to ask.
Our family has you and yours in their hearts and prayers.
Julie, you don't know me. I have two friends who knew your husband in high school in Vernal. Each have shared this story individually and I am completely heartbroken for you. Both of my friends talked very highly of your husband and said what a truly great guy he is. I currently live in Portland, so I'm not too far away from you. I am so so sorry for your loss. Truly heartbroken and tears are streaming as I type this. I don't know if I can add anything to what has already been written. But I want you to know that your Heavenly Father is aware of you. He loves you. Take things minute by minute if you need to. Keep an eternal perspective and know that your husband and little boy are together. They are close to you. I firmly believe that our loved ones who are on the other side of the veil are near us. I will continue to pray for you, even many many months into the future. Please know that you are not alone and many are thinking of you and sending their love. Sending my thoughts, love, and prayers to you.
Julie, My name is Lesli Ray. I am in Natalie and Thomas' ward. I cried with Natalie when she told me and my heart is so broken for you. Words can never express how hard this must be. I am thankful for eternal families and know that Jace and Sheldon will be preparing a kingdom for you when it is time to be reunited with your sweet family. I will pray for you and put your name in the temple so that you may recieve comfort. Love Lesli
It came as a shock to hear about the passing of Sheldon and Jace. I am so very sorry for your loss. Sheldon was such a great person and friend. He always made me laugh. I remember when you and Sheldon were first dating at the Cinnamon Tree apartments. He would always talk about how excited he was to get to know you better. We would give him some ridiculous strategies for you to notice him and he tried them all. I have many great memories of those times. Hilary and I both agree that your wedding was one of the most romantic and memorable that we have witnessed. We both spoke of how in love you too were with each other and how all in attendance could see that. We love you and are praying for you during this time of grieve and transition. As you believe, we also believe and know that we will all be together after our probationary state is complete. With all our love,
Julie, I don't know you but saw your LDSFS profile awhile back while updating ours and immediately felt of your family's sweet spirit. I was heartbroken when I heard the news and have been thinking about you since. I have no words but am praying for you and your loved ones. May you find some comfort and peace during this tragic time.
My name is Jeannine Alba Copeland. I knew you and your sister, Heather, in H.S. I know I don't know you very well but I just wanted to give you my heart felt condolences. I am so sorry for your loss. I am a Vegas girl that now lives in University Place, WA (near Tacoma) so I am only about an hour away. My mother-in-law lives in Olympia. I am not sure if there is anything we can do, but if there is, we would love to help. You are our thoughts and prayers.
julie you dont know me i live in england but your loss has touched me and i want you to know that you are in my thoughts the pain must be unbearable for you but please know you are not alone i and all your friends and neighbours and people who you do not know are thinking about you be brave god bless you
Dear Julie, There are no words at such a sad time. I'm so sorry for your loss and I wish I was closer so I could hug you. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. May you feel comfort from the love and prayers that all your friends and loved ones have for you during this very difficult time. Love Always, Mary Nay (Brush)
You don't know me, I'm a friend of Lisa Roberts. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this tender time. We too, adopted a little boy and have tasted the joys that come from Eternal Families. Our Gospel knowledge gives great comfort in knowing you will be reunited with Sheldon and Jace. My heart aches for you for your loss. Know that many prayers of comfort and the guiding hand of our Heavenly Father are upon you.
May God continue to bless you with a firm testimony of Eternal Families.
When Elizabeth told us, both Steve and were just heartbroken for you. Even though we only spent a few hours together last summer, I knew you two were great parents. And that Jace was an awesome dude! We have been praying for you ever since Sunday. I hope you can find some peace soon. It is so hard to lose a loved one. I can't imagine what you are going through now.
And know this might sound trite and all, but you will see you guys again. You will be together again. This life is but a moment. And Heavenly Father will not try us more then what we can handle. And you must be one tough lady!
I know that you have wonderful neighbors around you taking care of you. And I'm sure your family is there too to help you. I pray that they will know what is needed to help lighten your burden and lift you up.
We are with you in spirit.
Always, Sara and Steve Richins (Elizabeth's brother and SIL)
Julie - May God guide you and comfort you over these most difficult hours and days to come. There are no words to express how sorry all of us at Eyes of Arizona are for your loss. I feel blessed to have had the time i did to get to know Sheldon and to meet you & Jace. I will carry Sheldon's smile, humor, jokes and endless kindness with me forever in my heart. And Jaces endless smile and energy will always make me smile. I pray for your strength and courage for the coming days. Please know you are in everyone's thoughts here in Lake Havasu City. Sending hugs and love to you & all your family.
Julie, I am so sorry for this terrible loss of your husband and son. My heart aches for your pain and I pray for you everyday that you will be given the strength, courage and comforts needed to make it through this. I really enjoyed reading and hearing about your life with Sheldon as you guys were adopting, and the love that was shared and the desire to grow your family, and seeing all the pictures of Jace growing, It was beautiful! I know that this is a temporary separation and you will be with them again because families are Eternal. You and your family are in my thoughts every day and my husband's side sends their love, support and prayers also.
Julie you have not left my thoughts, prayers or heart since Sunday night. I have so much love and admiration for you and your family. Every time I think of sweet Jace I remember I couldn't help but think "he is SOOO handsome" every time I saw him or pictures through the blog. He truly is such a sweet, happy, fun little boy and will be forevermore in my memory. I remember Sheldon being the easiest person for Todd to get along with. Todd's personality doesn't click quickly with most people but Sheldon's fun laid back personality instantly allowed Todd to feel comfortable with him and is one of the few true friends Todd was able to meet here with our circumstances. I too remember he was just so easy to be around I'm sure many knew him better than we did but nothing but great feelings and memories come when we remember every moment we have been blessed to share with your sweet family. Please know just how much we love you and are sending angels your way. I know Gracie has been carried by angels through this year many times and find some comfort in knowing your very own angels on both sides of the veil will help carry you through this remarkably difficult journey. I love you so much. I was so grateful to you for reaching out to me in the short time we both lived in Forest Grove and have missed you ever since you moved. You always exuded happiness, kindness, compassion and love and have missed you ever since you moved. Todd knew when I had gone out with you b/c I was always happier when he got home. Sending love and hugs your way.
So many thoughts and messages shared over the last few days, but there are a couple things I would love to tell you. It has been a time of many tears and sorrows for all involved, I really can't imagine. Your heartaches and tears are our heartaches and tears. Please know that those of us who are friends and other observers (many who don't know your family) have been changed by the events of last weekend. You, Jace, and Sheldon are in the front of our thoughts constantly. In celebrating their lives and being the example you have, you have blessed the lives of those around you. We have become more prayerful, more meditative, more appreciative of the small things and even the big things, more grateful for the things we have instead of the things we wish we had, more thoughtful and kind because of you, Jace, and Sheldon. Thank you for that Julie...we hope to be a support to you, but you have in turn been a strength to all those who witness your faith and see the loving mother and wife you are. We hope you can feel the strength of prayers and thoughts constantly being sent your way. For every person who knows you, there are 100 more being touched by your example.
Perhaps the thought that has gone through my head the most over the last several days while parenting is, 'What would Julie do?' -- then I take my kids to the park when it's cold instead of staying inside(what I'd rather do), I put away the computer and projects and sit down and play games with them more, I refrain from raising my voice as much, I give them those extra hugs and kisses, I take more pictures...because that's what Julie would do. That's what Julie has done. That's what we will now do more in honor of your entire family. What a beautiful unintended legacy!
Love you so much. Thank you for sharing all that you have. :)
Julie, I never have met you, but I know of this through Emily and I know her through Merlin. Merlin and I went to BYUH together but before he knew Emily, I left before she was there. When I read what happened, I was so sad. We dont always know the answer why-sometimes we wonder for a good long time.I have had people I knew as friends and family go in unexpected ways. My Grandpa who was 92 but still fine, still up in about etc- in Jan 2009, one night he laid down to watch a Jazz a game on his couch, like usual, like almost every day for many, many days- fell asleep but was gone- it happened right in front me too as I was visiting with my sister law on the opposite side of the room. No warning at all. I wish you every comfort both spiritual and physical from your family. May the Lord give you peace. I cannot answer why, but I hope this for you, though I know we never have met.
Julie, I met you through FSA in Oregon a few years ago. People are sharing your story and this tragedy all over fb and it's all over the news. Wow, what a tragedy. I am so incredibly heartbroken for you. I am so incredibly sorry. I hope and pray that your tender heart can heal and that you will feel strengthened this week and in the weeks go come. I hope you can feel the love of God and He will especially strengthen your empty arms. Michelle Coxey
Nothing I can say will ease your pain but after having lost a child a few years ago this book helped me get through it all "Destiny or Tragedy" by Spencer W. Kimball. It will never stop hurting, you will always think about your loved ones but the pain will get easier to bare. My heart aches for you and I will continue to pray for you.
I am so grateful to know that through the gospel we have the knowledge that we will be taking many journeys; here on earth and into heaven. To know that Sheldon and Jace have continued their journey into the hereafter with family and friends that have passed through the veil and have been welcomed home. That our binding light of Christ will bring us together again. Our families prayers are with you and your family. It is amazing to see how we can all come together in love, hope, charity, and faith when we allow tender mercies to take over through the spirit. Julie, may your journey be comforted by the spirit, as your family will be there to help your being; their light will shine for you helping you along your way. love know no boundaries!
Julie, I have not quit thinking and praying for you and your family since Sunday, when I heard about what happened. You are truly one of the sweetest, kindest people I've ever known and I can't even comprehend what you're going through right now. I got this scripture in an email this morning and I thought of you.
"The day cometh that all shall rise from the dead and stand before God, and be judged according to their works. Now, there is a death which is called a temporal death; and the death of Christ shall loose the bands of this temporal death, that all shall be raised from this temporal death. The spirit and the body shall be reunited again in its perfect form; both limb and joint shall be restored to its proper frame, even as we now are at this time; and we shall be brought to stand before God." —Alma 11:41-43, Book of Mormon
I hope it's a beautiful service tomorrow and that you have the strength and support you need. For sure, Sheldon and Jace will be watching over you. You are amazing! Love, Melissa
I have and always will remember how sweet and kind you were to me in Middle School and how your positive personality was so infectious. My heart has been breaking for you since I heard this news. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Dear Julie, Back in Forest Grove, we were in the same ward and you were my visiting teacher for quite a while. Michael was in the class ahead of Sheldon. I remember sometimes we would see Sheldon walking with Jace in the Baby Bjorn on the way to church. Michael would say we thought about picking them up and then Sheldon would tease him about how the thought didn't count. I got to hold Jace at least a couple of times - I think he was 6 or 7 months old at a Relief Society meeting. He was super cute and special. We love your family - I have been heartbroken at this news... I try to say a prayer for you guys whenever I think of you. I believe that Sheldon and Jace are together right now, and it's just those of us who are still on earth that are missing them. No matter what happens, nobody can take away the wonderful memories of every wonderful day you spent together as a family and with us. I'm glad you are a strong, spiritual lady and that families can be together forever. Please let us know if we can do anything.
I also had the pleasure to graduate in the same year as Sheldon in optometry school. I really could not believe it when I read the news. I did not participate in a whole lot of activities with Sheldon but the times that we have talked, I found him to be really humorous and outgoing. My heart really goes out to you, and we will continue to keep Sheldon in our prayers. I don't know what else I can say to you but I hope you will continue to be strong.
I have been devastated by the news and am so sorry for your loss.
I was in Sheldon's class at Pacific, and I remember him vividly for his shy smile, his friendliness, and his wonderful sense of humor. He was uproariously funny, but I do not remember him ever making fun of anyone besides himself. We did not speak much until Jace came along; then our enormous love for our sons gave us something in common. I cannot believe that he is gone.
Julie, You are a true woman of strength, grace and poise. I'm sorry that we didn't have the opportunity to get to know you sooner. You have our prayers and those of our family and friends.
Thinking about you today. May the Lord bless you with his peace and love through this trying time. You are an amazing woman and I am grateful that I know you. Much love, Niki
Julie, I am so sad for you, what you have had to go through and the heartbreak you are having to endure. You taught my son, Trenton in 4th grade at Southland and made such an impression on us. You are so full of love and life and it makes me cry that you have to go through something so hard. I am sure that your beautiful son and husband will be near you and will love you from the other side, until you can be with them again. You are such a beautiful person and I pray that you will be comforted by our loving Heavenly Father, I know he loves you and knows how hard this is. Our prayers continually go out for you. Love, Lara Stout
Julie, We haven't stopped praying for you ever since we found out last week. May you feel love and peace from our Heavenly Father during this very tough time. Sending our love and prayers... Seth & Sierra Jensen
Julie, I am so sorry for your loss, most people cannot imagine what you have gone through and will continue to go through for some time, however I can, I too lost a child she was 32, older yes but she was my child and the pain is the same. I haven't had the pleasure of meeting you or your family and I am sorry for that I am a Board Member here at Lake Limerick and have been gone for 7 weeks but I heard about this tragic accident and wanted you to know my heart and prayers go out to you.
Julie, I am so sorry for your loss. I do not know you, or your family, but I have been keeping you in my prayers. I just wanted to say I was sorry. You sound like a wonderful woman, and have an amazing family. I pray God will grant you the strength to press forward on your journey. Please know you will be in my thoughts and prayers...and in the hearts of many. You are not alone, never alone. May God Bless You. Sarah O'Gwin
Oh my goodness.. I don't even know you, but my heart is breaking for you. I am friends with Kristen Bell who shared your story. I pray that the Lord with buoy you up and strengthen you and support you through this difficult time. Janis
Julie, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in our hearts and prayers. We live here in Lake Limerick and been praying for you everyday. May God Bless You. Chad & Tammy Anderson
“There is sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are messengers of overwhelming grief...and unspeakable love.” – Washington Irving
I love you Julie. My heart breaks when I think of what you must be enduring.
Julie, I knew Sheldon from HS back in the day. He was a great person and I feel so sad for your double loss. I can't begin to imagine what you are going through. May God be with you and keep you safe. I read Revelations 21:4 when I feel sad for a loss. Someday you will all be together. Until then my heart goes out to you and your families. God Bless. Amanda Zubiate Fausett
Dear Julie, I am so sorry for the indescribable loss you've experienced. I have thought about you everyday and kept you in my prayers. I hope that you are feeling the peace and comfort that only our Father in Heaven can provide, but also feel the love and support of all your friends and family. And although I know it can't take away the pain, I hope you can find some comfort in the plan of salvation and know that you will see Jace and Sheldon again. Even though it's been since high school since you and I have talked, you were always so sweet and kind to everyone around you and I know that your husband and son were blessed to have you as their wife and mother.
Julie, I am so sad and so sorry for what you are going through. I too know the shock and hurt of losing someone you love so much. The pain is unbearable and often cannot be described. Unless someone has experienced a sudden loss it is impossible to understand. Although I too have felt this I cannot feel all that you feel. I weep with you and pray for you to carried through all the days to come. We can take comfort in knowing the Savior truly knows and I promise you that HE will be there to carry you and help you. You are a special woman and God does have a special plan for you. He will not leave you comfortless. This I promise you! I am so grateful we got to have you and Sheldon at our house with all your friends, and with our daughter Ashly and Hans. It was a honor to meet you. We will keep you in our prayers and pray that you will be watched over in every way. Kathy Tawzer
Hello Julie, While I didn't know you personally I knew your great sis Heather and your mom was my awesome typing teacher in 8th grade at Guinn. A space S space D space etc. I can always hear her voice saying that repeatedly. Ever since I heard this tragic news I have had a constant pit in my stomach and ache in my heart. I have cried for you and prayed for you tons. You seriously have not left my mind for a week now. I really hope that you have felt comfort and peace and have been able to feel the embrace from your husband, son and Father in Heaven. As I was reading in the Ensign tonight I had a feeling that I spotted a tender mercy from the Lord for you. This talk by Elder Bednar is probably one of the best talks I have ever read. I thought it came at the most perfect time ever. What struck me the very most was this part
"The Savior has suffered not just for our iniquities but also for the inequality, the unfairness, the pain, the anguish, and the emotional distresses that so frequently beset us. There is no physical pain, no anguish of soul, no suffering of spirit, no infirmity or weakness that you or I ever experience during our mortal journey that the Savior did not experience first. You and I in a moment of weakness may cry out, “No one understands. No one knows.” No human being, perhaps, knows. But the Son of God perfectly knows and understands, for He felt and bore our burdens before we ever did. And because He paid the ultimate price and bore that burden, He has perfect empathy and can extend to us His arm of mercy in so many phases of our life. He can reach out, touch, succor—literally run to us—and strengthen us to be more than we could ever be and help us to do that which we could never do through relying upon only our own power. “Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. “Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. “For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light” (Matthew 11:28–30)."
JULIE, when you are in your moments of gut wrenching despair STOP where you are and kneel for help from the ONE who knows PRECISELY how you feel. Jesus Christ knows EXACTLY how Julie Olsen feels and HE will give you peace that no one else can. I plead for you to remember that. In the talk "He heals the Heavy Laden" Elder Oaks referred to this same topic.
He says "“Commune with the Lord. … He is your best friend! He knows your pain because He has felt it for you already. He is ready to carry that burden. Trust Him enough to place it at His feet and allow Him to carry it for you. Then you can have your anguish replaced with His peace, in the very depths of your soul”
At a time when I was struggling with something that NO ONE i knew could relate to exactly, i read this and literally pictured Jesus Christ walking hip to hip, arm in arm with me. I promise you, I felt relief. Often I go back to that picture and walk with him, replacing my doubts and fears KNOWING he is RIGHT THERE HOOKED ON NEXT TO ME.
I sincerely hope this helps you in your future.
I just had the thought tonight that although your son is not watching you and learning from you on this earth you are every bit a mother to him as he watches and learns everything you do, everyone you encounter and everyone you touch. You will continue to be his mother the rest of your mortal life becuase I believe with my whole heart that he will be very near to you and learning from you still. Not to mention comfort you throughout your life. And your loving husband as well.
I don't know you, but i love you. And i love Sheldon and sweet Jace as well.
Dear Julie, I know how much time Sheldon devoted to his studies and how he worked hard for you and Jace. I taught Sheldon for 3 out of the 4 years he was a student at Pacific. I am so very shocked and saddened to learn he is gone from you. I pray for you everyday. What I wanted you to know is how much Sheldon was needed by his classmates. Optometry school is a tough and demanding place that knocks the best of students down at times. Sheldon was able to rise above the stressful atmosphere and helped his classmates by providing much needed levity and encouragement. Sheldon was often cracking jokes and always smiling. Even the smallest bit of joy he would display on test days did wonders to lift spirits. Sheldon helped his classmates simply by being himself. Thank you for the support you provided for him so that he could do that. Sheldon left his mark on everyone around him and will always be remembered with a smile. Sincerely, Tracy Doll
Julie- My thoughts have been with you since I heard the news. We have not seen each other in a long time, but I have followed the adventures of your beautiful family through your blog. I know you are a strong woman- physically, mentally, spiritually. And though you carry the weight of the world on your shoulders, remember that time heals. All my best to you. Heather (Marren) Austin
I grew up with Sheldon and also attended University of Utah with him, I was very saddened to hear of this news and am only comforted in knowing where he and his son have now gone. Sheldon was a great person and an example, to say the least. My prayers go out to his wife and family. -Adam Madsen
My name is Hillary Stephens, and I am Drew and Rebecca Stephens' sister-in-law. I heard about what happened through Rebecca last week, and I haven't been able to stop thinking about you ever since. My heart aches for you. I know you are a very cherished friend of Rebecca's, and to know how she is grieving for you makes me even more sad. It makes it that much more personal for me, even though I don't know you personally.
I cannot even express how truly sorry I am for your loss. I have 3 children of my own, and so I can sympathize with your grief. But to have both your husband and child, your entire world, taken from you like that, it just makes my heart completely break to even imagine.
I wish I had some magic words of comfort I could offer to help ease your pain. Please just take whatever comfort you can from the fact that you have people all over the country thinking of you and wishing you the very best. It may seem completely overwhelming and impossible right now, but you can get through it. It sounds like you have an amazing support system. Lean on them, and they can be your strength when you feel like you can't go on.
Again, I am so sorry. But I am grateful for hearing of your story because it has given me a big lesson to never take a single moment with my husband and children for granted. Life really can change in the blink of an eye. I will love more deeply, laugh more often, and make sure that my husband and children know every single day how much I love them and how blessed I am to have them in my life.
Julie, You don't know me but I heard about your tragedy through other LDS folks and I would like you know that there is an LDS Widow/Widower group you can ask to join online that will give you worlds of support and love and help with your grieving. These are all people like myself who have lost spouses. There is so much strength there where everyone shares their feelings and experiences and also their gratitude and uplifting thoughts and messages. The spirit is also strong there. You can join right away and participate however you feel. I wish I would have found this site years ago after my loss. I am truly sorry for your loss and I know the Lord loves you and your family.
Oh Julie! I can't tell you how much I hurt for you. I want to take some of your pain away because I know how deep the hurt can be. After reading some of your posts, I am overcome with amazement by your strength and testimony. You are absolutely right though...the sting of death is made so much easier knowing that you will be with them soon and forever after! You are an inspiration to me and I am sure to everyone around you. I love you.
Hi Julie. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I put your name on the temple prayer roll last night. You are loved during this hard tome. love, Adrienne Hope Hutchinson
Hi Julie, I just wanted to tell you how much I loved your little family! I loved watching Jace for you for the past two months. What I will miss most about Jace is his happy smiling face. He would never cry while I was watching him. I will also miss his little screams of joy to get my attention. After we would eat dinner we would watch some tv, while we were sitting on the couch he would try to jump over me (most of the time he would land on me) but when i would put my hands up to soften his landing he would say, "Hands down Eivie, hands down". and then I would get up and chase him around the living room saying, "I'm gonna get you!" he would smile and scream and then say "Can't catch me!" When I would catch him I would pick him up and put him on the couch and tickled him.
I loved him so much and I know that we will be able to see him again through Heavenly Fathers Plan and by living the Gospel!
Julie, my heart has been broken for you since I first heard of this tragedy. You have been in my thoughts and prayers, but I haven't known what to write. Although I still am at a loss of what to say, I know that I would regret it if I didn't share with you my thoughts about Sheldon. I went to high school with him. I was lucky enough to spend time with him senior year when I was dating one of his friends. He was such a fun, happy person. I just LOVED his smile. I have many memories of him that have, and will always, make me smile! I was very excited to find him on facebook and see all the many wonderful things he was doing in life. I will always think very highly of him! It breaks my heart that such a wonderful man, and sweet little boy have been taken from this earth, and from you! I pray with all my heart that you will be able to have peace in the plan of our Savior.
I am one of Natalie's friends. (We have been friends since high school and we were roommates in Hawaii.) Our family has been praying for you everyday since we found out about little Jace and Sheldon. There is not much I can say but know that you are thought of and prayed for by so many. I know there of many people that don't feel they have adequate wording to even speak at this time, but they're praying for you and your family!
Natalie was actually telling us a few weeks ago about her brother Sheldon that lived in Shelton, :). I agree with the person that said that each of us feels a little of your burden, and hopefully that helps to lighten in any way. You are loved and so are your boys!
Julie, You probably don't remember me but we have met a couple times in your mom's ward. I knew Jace from nursery with my son and an outing at the park with grandpa. And then I was made your mom's visting teacher a few weeks ago. My heart aches for you and the rest of your extended family. You have been in my prayers often and will continue to be. Lean on your wonderful Galler/Sutton family, they are truly amazing people! Tiffany Jenkins
I found out about the blog through a friends, but wanted to offer my condolences. I am so sorry for your loss and will keep you in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Dearest Julie, You don't know me. Your heart breaking story was shared as part of our Relief Society Meeting this morning. I know that as you struggle during this time of deep sorrow, no words of comfort or advice will dull the pain. All I kept thinking while your story was being read was that "she has to know that we love her." Dear sister, my heart aches for you, and although I only know you from the story that was shared, I love you. One of the dearest blessings of the gospel is the knowledge that we are all sisters and brothers, children of our Heavenly Father. I know that all I can do for you, is to pray, and you will be in my heartfelt prayers. I know of no other way to express my love and condolences to you. Take heart, dear sister, we love you. -Jennifer Urban
OMG, i am going to cry. I did not realize that it was these 2 that past away in lake limrick. I am really sorry for your lost! He helped me with my daughter and step child at the eye clinic in walmart and he always talked about his son and how big he was getting and that my son reminded him about his son! if there is anything i can do, let me know!
Julie,
ReplyDeleteWords cannot express...
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Fasting and praying for you and your family.
-Matt Brandley
Julie,
ReplyDeleteIt is so comforting to know that families are forever and you will reunite with them again someday. Jace and Sheldon were so lucky to have you as a wife and mother and I know that they knew that!! We love you so much and are in our thoughts and prayers daily.
-Heather
Julie,
ReplyDeleteI love you so much! I know you can get through this...it's going to take time, but you can do it. You are such a strong woman and have always been a great example to me. I look up to you so much. You've always been there for me through my trials and I want you to know that I'm here for you now. You have so many friends and family members that love and care for you and want to help. I know Jace and Sheldon are together. Find comfort in the fact that they have each other and you can one day reunite with them. They will be watching over you as guardian angels. I love you!
Natalie
Julie,
ReplyDeleteI want you to know what an amazing woman you are. You are strong and faithful, loving and kind. Please know we are praying for you and your family to get you through this tough time. May angels be watching over you and giving you the courage you need. Love to you,
Stacy
Julie,
ReplyDeleteI know you don't know me, but I am married to one of Thomas Ellsworth's cousins. Since I saw Natalie post about this sad tragedy you have been in my thoughts and prayers. As a mother of 3 boys myself, I cannot imagine what you are going through. I know you are very loved by your family and friends, and they are there to help you through this tragic accident. Find comfort in the knowledge of the Gospel and that families are forever. You will be reunited with your sweet little boy and your loving husband again. May you find peace and comfort through the acts of kindness that is and will be shared with you during this tough time. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Andrea Ljungquist
Dearest Julie,
ReplyDeleteI have never met you but your sister Natalie shared your story. Please know that you have so many people praying on your behalf, including myself. My the Lord hold your heart in His hands as you face each moment of each day. I pray that you may find comfort in our Heavenly Father's love and the angels that are surely all around you helping you through this most difficult time.
Hugs and Love,
Emily
Julie,
ReplyDeleteI am so glad that you will have the words of family and friends to help you through this terrible ordeal. Know that many, many prayers are being said for you and your family. I am sure that you have best angels up there watching over you in your time of need! Your devout faith will help you through this and help you to what comes next. You were always an example of faith growing up.
Love you tons,
Amy
Julie,
ReplyDeleteI know that our paths have not crossed for many years, but I do remember you and that awesome Galler family as some of the greatest people out there! I am sorry for your loss, and will pray for you. I know that the Savior will help carry your burden, and that the many prayers being said for you will give you strength.
Kristin Bennett Hoffmann( Heather's old mission comp:)
Julie,
ReplyDeleteI have been praying for you since I heard last night, I'm so sorry I have such fond memories of how sweet you all are...I wish I was there so I could give you a great big hug, but all I can do is pray that Heavenly Father can do that instead. I pray he will give you that great big hug that you need right now. I will fast for you this Sunday....Love Sister Dorsey
Julie,
ReplyDeleteI have just not been able to keep you out of my thoughts. I know you have amazing faith and that if anyone can make it through a trial like this that it is only through the tender mercies of the Lord. I am so thankful to know how much faith you have and that will be available to you whenever you seek His comfort. I just loved that little Jace. My heart breaks for you to know how deeply you loved these boys and all the questions you must face at this time. I just hope that for now you can find a way through these next few days and from there, we will do all we can to lift and support and love you through this. I know that Sheldon loved Jace and this was a mistake any parent could have made and that you will find a way to understand and make peace with what has happened. You were both amazing and loving parents and one of the most wonderful amazing families. I hope and pray for your comfort and peace now and always,
love~ Char
Julie,
ReplyDeleteMy heart just broke when I heard about this. I was so impressed with you and Sheldon as YW/YM leaders. I appreciated your testimony and willingness to serve - and the love you shared with the girls -- with the youth - and with the ward. It was a very special year for me and I have missed you. My love, thoughts and prayers are with you.
-- Sherelyn
I'm so sorry . I can't speak for jace's birthmom, but being a birthmom myself I'm grateful for you and the wonderful life, the eternal life, u gave that little boy in his visit to this world. I can't imagine your heartbreak, but thank you for the wonderful gift that u and your husband gave that special boy. He is living the promise you gave him.
ReplyDeleteJulie,
ReplyDeleteOur daughters just informed Nanette and me of this very sad news. We are so sorry for this loss and please know that we will be praying for you and your families.
All our love,
Tony and Nanette Grant
Julie, I do not know you and your family but we too have lost family to that lake. When I saw it on the news my heart went out to you and yours. I also live in Shelton. God Bless you and give you strength to endure. Healing prayers winging your way and just letting you know we care...
ReplyDeleteKaren Cannard
I never met Sheldon or Jace, but have known Julie for many years and love and respect her. From the first time meeting Julie and her fun family on a rafting trip down the Colorado, we connected. Our hearts have been saddened by this event, but want Julie to know we are there if needed. Our prayers are with you. My student ward has included you in their prayers. May the comfort of our Heavenly Father be with you always.
ReplyDeleteLove,
Chris, Deena and Ben Justice
Julie, I cannot express how heart wrenched we are over this. It is shocking to so many of us who knew you, Sheldon, and your wonderful beautiful boy Jace. There is no way to easily overcome something so tragic and sudden. I cannot imagine the pain you must be going through. Sheldon and Jace will simply be missed for many years to come. Events like this don't ever seem to have any good reason for happening. The only comfort we can draw on is the sure knowledge that someday we will see our loved ones again. I keep thinking that at least Shelton will be there to take care of Jace. You are in our hearts and prayers. Tom and Heidi Alsop
ReplyDeleteJulie and Olsen Family,
ReplyDeleteMuch love and support sent your way. Sheldon will always shine on! Always a smile shared, never not laughing, always calm, very dedicated and such an impact to everyone ever in contact!!!! You are so very blessed to have shared so much with Sheldon. I am still so dumb struck that out of the blue to have such a devistating accident. Much love and support to you!
Holly Eaton - Jacobsen
Farmington, Utah (Vernal Native)
Dear Sweet Julie,
ReplyDeleteI am sorry for what you have to travel through. This journey is not an easy one. Since I first heard of this tragedy I have not stopped thinking of your little family. My heart aches for you, yet I know how strong you are and how amazing you are. The best part is you have so many people who love you and will stand there to hold you up as you continue down your path. You have always been such a great example to me with your testimony of the Gospel. Some pain never goes away, but it does become less painful. Sheldon is a great father and a great man. It is clear how much he loves you. Jace was a beautiful baby and is a sweet boy. One day the three of you will be together again never to be separated again. Much love for you and your family.
Love,
Sierra
Julie,
ReplyDeleteIt's hard to put into words the sorrow that is in my heart. Mike and I love having Jace in the nursery over this past year. He was everything a 2-1/2 year old should be. He was loving, fun, energetic, caring, funny and so loved by you and Sheldon. Every Sunday, he would ask for "The Itsy Bitsy Spider" song, which we sang every Sunday. We love you, we are praying for you and we are hear for you if you need us.
With so much love in our hearts,
Your eternal friends,
Michael and Julia Graham
Julie,
ReplyDeleteYour friend, Charlyn, shared your story with me. My heart goes out to you and your family. Please know that you are in my prayers. I pray that you will be comforted by the Spirit, feel of Heavenly Father's love and mindfulness of you, and that you will feel the love of your husband and little boy on the other side of the veil.
Much love,
Karin Dance
Im so sorry for you loss. Sheldon was an amazing guy and loved by all. My thoughts and prayers are with you...
ReplyDeleteOmar
Julie,
ReplyDeleteMy heart has been aching for you since I heard what happen. It's been so long since I've seen you and Sheldon but I can still remember what an amazing couple you both were and how kind and fun Sheldon always was. I've been praying that you feel comfort in knowing that Jace and Sheldon are waiting for you together. You and your family will continue to be in my family's prayers,
Gabby
Dear Julie,
ReplyDeleteI am Julie Savage's mom. Julie and her husband, Mike, were Jace's nursery teachers. I live in Bountiful, Utah. She told me about your tragedy and I am so terribly sorry. Julie suddenly lost her younger brother, my son, two years ago and our family will always carry that pain. You can turn to her for understanding, as she knows somewhat of what you are experiencing. Please know that even though your world is falling apart, our Father in Heaven knows who you are and will give you the strength to endure the rough days and weeks ahead.
Julie....My heart is just aching for the trial you must face. Please take comfort and knowledge that you will be reunited again. We do not know and understand why these things happen. The Savior knows and will see you through this difficult time. Your husband and son will be around you always and help you in your life until you see them again. I know this for certain. Your friends and family will surround you with love and understanding, and most of all the Savior will carry you until you can do it on your own.
ReplyDeleteThinking and praying for you this day
Your sister in the gospel......Becky
Praying for your strength and that God's comfort guides you through this difficult journey. Through four years of optometry school, Sheldon lightened the mood in the classroom with his incredible sense of humor. My heart aches for you... continued prayers for you and your families.
ReplyDeleteCeara Steiner
Dear Julie,
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your loss! I didnt know Jace that well but I knew Sheldon, he was my eye doctor. I have seen both of them around the church many many times. I plan on attending your funeral. Praying for you and your family.
Very Much Love,
Lizzie
Julie,
ReplyDeleteWhen I read the news the kids first word to me was "prayer". We have been and will continue to pray for you and your family. We know you are amazing and can get through this. Just remember that your savior is there for you always and knows what you are going through. Trust in him.
We love you!
Luke and Lora
Our little family is and will continue to pray for you. I have such good memories of your sweet family. I wish there were words enough to express our heartbreak for you. May our Savior carry you through this incredibly difficult time.
ReplyDeleteWe love you!
Tim, Tonya and Blake Kelley
Dearest Julie,
ReplyDeleteI used to be in your ward, though I don't think we have met. I am so sorry to hear of your great loss. May the peace that passes all understanding be there to comfort you during this difficult time. I have seen this peace on the countenances of several young parents when they have experienced this type of loss. My prayers will be with you now and in the coming days.
With love, Charlotte Cline
Julie,
ReplyDeleteWe have never met, but my family is close friends with the Suttons and I heard about what happened through them. Words just cannot express how sorry I am to hear that you are going through this. Just know that there are people all over the world praying for you and that you are not alone. We are sending all of our love and support to you and hope that you can find moments of peace in between emotions that will renew and restore you.
Love,
Candice, Trent, Delaney, Mia and Bodhi Bemish
Phoenix, AZ
Julie,
ReplyDeleteI cried for you tonight. My heart aches for your loss. I am Michelle Vandermyde's sister in law. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We are pleading with the Lord to offer you His comfort. Much love.
Michelle
Julie,
ReplyDeleteI knew Sheldon from the Upward Bound program in high school. I remember his warm and friendly smile. He always had such spunk. I am so terribly sorry for the loss you have experienced. Please know that you are in my prayers. Always remember that with the knowledge of the gospel we know that families are forever. Sheldon and Jace are there preparing for you and watching over you even now. May the peace of our Lord and Savior be with you now.
Kathryn
Julie, once again our prayers and thoughts are with you. We love you, and we are here for you always.
ReplyDeleteMelissa, John and JoJo
Julie,
ReplyDeleteI went to Optometry school at Pacific in the class ahead of Sheldon. I was his Optics TA during his first year.
My heart goes out to you with the deepest of sympathies. I am praying for you and have asked my friends & family to do the same. I know you are a woman of faith, and I hope you will cling to that in the days, weeks, & months to come. This life can be so hard & full of terrible things that aren't fair are are beyond explanation. Trust in the life to come & that you will see and be reunited with your loved ones again. Until that time, I pray that GOD will hold you in the palm of his loving hands, give you peace & healing, & guide you along the path he has planned for you.
With all the love & compassion in my heart,
Kristen Kingsbury
Minneapolis, MN
Words fail. We mourn with you from near and far. I trust that our tomorrows will be brighter than our todays. Just wait for them. We are with you in every thought.
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I can't even begin to imagine your depth of pain, but know that my heart and prayers go out to you. You have always impressed me as such a strong, faithful and very loving woman. The couple of times I saw you and Sheldon with Jace I could tell what fantastic parents you are. Please know that I am thinking of you at this time. Much love, Erin Glabe
ReplyDeleteDear Julie,
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts and prayers are with you in this very trying time. I had the pleasure of going to Optometry school with Sheldon for four years. I will always remember Sheldon as being a very kind and funny guy. He definitely made all of us in the back rows laugh with his witty remarks. When I would be late for class, Sheldon who normally sat in the back row, would push his chair back so I wouldn’t be able to get through, his attempt to embarrass me a bit more for walking into lecture late. What I'll remember most about him though, is the sheer joy in his eyes when he spoke about his family, especially Jace. I remember seeing him walk around the Pacific campus with Jace in his stroller many times. Jace was such an incredibly beautiful child and very blessed to have two loving parents like you and Sheldon. My heart is heavy for their loss and you will continue to be in my prayers. Please remember that you will always be a part of our greater family in the Class of 2011.
Sabrina Jagpal
Julie,
ReplyDeleteI heard of the tragic news today and have not stopped thinking and praying for you. I cannot imagine what you are going through. This is something that nobody should have to go through, but your support network and faith will help you during this tough time.
We at Pacific are shaken by this tragedy and I know we are here for you and your family. I will never forget Sheldon's smile and laugh, as he displayed these often. He was such a wonderful individual and I can only imagine how great of a family man he was. My family and I are sorry for your loss and will pray for you. God bless.
Fraser C. Horn
Faculty at Pacific University College of Optometry
I remember taking newborn Jace's pictures with you and Sheldon, and seeing the true joy and love in the hearts of long awaiting parents. The smiles above in the picture posted here on this page show an even greater joy an eternal family, each smile telling the story of happiness, togetherness, love and true joy. Pictures do say a thousand words to me.
ReplyDeleteThe words of Elder Holland completely express the emotion and belief we both have that will be your sustaining power,
"But in times of special need, He sent angels, divine messengers, to bless His children, reassure them that heaven was always very close and that His help was always very near... I testify of angels, both the heavenly and the mortal kind. In doing so I am testifying that God never leaves us alone, never leaves us unaided in the challenges that we face. “[N]or will he, so long as time shall last, or the earth shall stand...
"I will go before your face. I will be on your right hand and on your left, … my Spirit shall be in your [heart], and mine angels round about you, to bear you up.” D&C 84:88
All our prayers, condolences, love and hope of faith for you dear Julie.
Julie,
ReplyDeleteAlthough I do not know you, after reading all the wonderful things previous people have posted about you, your husband and sweet baby boy I feel like I know you and them. I am so sorry for your loss. I just pray that you can get through this trying time and see that Heavenly Father has control and would not give you more then you can handle. He is there for you will see you through this.
Julie,
ReplyDeleteWords truly fail me right now...
It's been a while since I've seen you, and maybe we weren't even the closest friends back in school. But it doesn't matter. I love you. And I mourn with you. I am so, so sorry.
Love,
Sarah Gubler
Julie,
ReplyDeleteYour time spent in our ward was so memorable, whenever you bore your testimony I could feel your love of your family & our savior. I pray that you can hold onto that during this time. Please know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
I pray that love and faith in our Savior will be your companion now and always. Debi Heintz
Julie,
ReplyDeleteI have never met you, but Sheldon and I were in the same MTC district. He was always the life of the party and helped everyone work hard and stay positive. My heart aches for you. I am so, so sorry for your loss.
love,
Kelly Riding (SLC, UT)
I cannot imagine your sorrow, and we may know each other some. I hope you know that you are not alone, and that others will mourn with you and comfort you. Look for happiness in the little things, and be sad when you need to. I am so sorry.
ReplyDeleteJulie,
ReplyDeleteMy guess is that this all very overwhelming and that it may take time for you to read through all these comments and expressions, I hope they are healing.
I know I have never met you, but know Sheldon from high school. I would think you would appreciate knowing that everyone thought of him as such a nice guy. I walked through the graduation line with Sheldon, and when I read the story, I had to post immediately. When I posted the story on Facebook asking for prayers, the comments have been all about how great he was. That speaks volumes about his integrity, something you know very well. I hope it is comforting to know that so many of us that went to school with him remember his kind personality.
While I don't understand completely all your feelings, I understand the fear of losing your spouse as my own husband has terminal brain cancer. My heart aches for you and I am praying for the enabling power of the atonement (that I have a strong personal testimony about) to somehow buoy you up and let you feel the prayers of those around you.
Kristen Baumgarten (Vernal, Utah)
I don't even know where to begin... Sheldon was an amazing person. He was always kind to those he associated with. He was fun and had a great sense of humor. I can't even comprehend the deep sorrow you must feel. Know that so many people have you in their prayers. I hope that you can feel the peace that comes from the prayers of so many.
ReplyDeleteHeidi Morton (Vernal, UT)
I am so sorry for your lose - You are in our prayers. Sheldon was my younger brothers friend. Again I am so sorry. <3
ReplyDeleteI don't even know your family, but I'm friends of Sheldon's brother Lance and after I read your story I just started crying. This journey ahead will no doubt be hard. I've watched others who had gone through tragic deaths and experienced deep sorrow and a closeness to Heavenly Father, I have admired them for their faith and courage. You will now be one of those people I admire, I know angels will wrap you up in a warm blanket of comfort. Sincerely, Lara Wallace (Vermillion, SD originally Orem, UT)
ReplyDeleteDear Julie,
ReplyDeleteI heard about your story through mutual friends. I am so sorry for your tragedy! Your story touched my heart and I wanted you to know that you will be in my prayers and the prayers of my family! http://www.lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?locale=0&vgnextoid=bd163ca6e9aa3210VgnVCM1000003a94610aRCRD&channelId=bd163ca6e9aa3210VgnVCM1000003a94610aRCRD&sourceId=b63b822d7ecc8210VgnVCM100000176f620a____
Sara Holyoak
Julie,
ReplyDeleteWe are all heartbroken for the loss of Sheldon and Jace, but I know that our suffering is completely superficial to the amount of pain you must be feeling right now. Even so, your last blog post showed me what a strong and faithful woman you are. I can tell that you're relying on Heavenly Father and Jesus, and I pray that they will comfort you and help you through this horrible time. We love you so much, and we will always remember Sheldon and Jace for the wonderful and fun people that you shared so many adventures with.
Julie,
ReplyDeleteWords can not even express how sorry I am for your loss! I can't even imagine the pain you are going through right now. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Misty (Young) Sarachman
Julie, Galler's and Olson's,
ReplyDeletePlease know how loved you are and how many prayers are being sent in your behalf. I am so sorry for the pain that you are going through. May the Lord comfort you during this time.
Love,
Julie Steadman
Julie,
ReplyDeleteMy heart is aching for you. I'm not sure you knew but my family, Luke and our kids, are preparing to be sealed in the Las Vegas Temple next month. I know right now must be a very difficult time to find any peace, but I know that you have a strong testimony of the Temple and of eternal families. I know that you know that your time with your family does not end here. I know that you know that your Heavenly Father loves you and KNOWS your pain. I know that you are strong and that while your road will be difficult it is possible for you to come through this. Please hold tight to what you KNOW. I love you! My family is fasting and praying for you!
Misty Elder Mostoller
Julie,
ReplyDeleteWe are so very sorry to hear about the loss of your husband and beautiful baby boy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jason Primas and family
Dear Julie,
ReplyDeleteI am friends with Lance and Heidi here in Orem. Heidi has been such a wonderful friend that I have felt like family and in turn, deeply feel the sorrow of your loss. I wish I had some words to say to help you but I know that no words can ease the pain of your loss at this time. Please know how much you are loved and that thousands of people are praying for you to receive comfort now.
I wanted to tell you that I relayed the story to my younger sister in Kentucky and asked her to have her family and friends to pray for you. She told me that she explained to her 7 year old daughter what happened to your family and little Lucy sat down and sobbed for you. Lucy's prayers are potent, believe me, and I know she will keep praying for you for months. That is just how she is.
I am so grateful for eternal families! May you find comfort soon.
~Spanky Dunne
Julie and Family-
ReplyDeleteI am so very sorry for your loss. Something my father has always told us of young children taken back to our Father is that their spirits are just too special to be tainted with the hardships that are brought with this mortal trial. I know you have been told this, but remember that you have them for eternity. They are with you. You and your family and loved ones are in our prayers.
With Love,
Kaylea Tuttle and Family
Julie,
ReplyDeleteI was in Sheldon's Optometry Class. We had met a few times but I am sure it must have been somewhat overwhelming with trying to keep us all straight. I just wanted you to know that you are in my prayers and I am so sorry for your loss and cannot even imagine the pain and hurt you are going through. Sheldon was any amazing person and I feel lucky to have been able to know him and be part of his life even for just a short period. Stay strong and know that so many people are thinking and praying for you!
Ashlee Mills-Fischer
Julie, I'm soo sorry about Sheldon and Jace...I still can't believe it! You are in our prayers. I try not to think about what has happened and I'm trying to focus more on where they are now and what they might be doing now. I'm glad they are together but soo sad that you are left alone. I still remember the day when you guys told us that you were going to adopt Jace. You guys where soo happy and had that assurance that it was meant to be...and it was. We never saw you guys raise Jace because we moved back to Utah, but I know you guys were great parents to Jace and loved him very much! Sheldon is such a great guy and he'll be missed. I remember when I moved to Vernal and how nice he was to me...he was a great friend. I remember how you guys meet and what a perfect couple you guys were from the very beginning. In fact, I remember when Sheldon told me that he was going to ask you to marry him and how perfect you were for him and how much he'd loved you...and you guys were only dating about a month. -That's instant love Julie! You are such a patient, wonderful, loving person Julie and my heart goes out to you that you'll make it thru these hard times. I can't wait to see your family together again! I really, really can't wait! That will be the best reunion!! Until then...I hope and pray that this vail that is placed upon us is thinned for you and that you may feel his love and Jace's love that they have for you and that they may bring you comfort, love, and peace! -Danny
ReplyDeleteDear Julie,
ReplyDeleteMy mind still can't grasp what you have to go through at this time. My heart aches for you and my prayers go out to give you strength to make it through these tough times. I unfortunately never got to meet Jace, but I know you two were perfect parents. I have many fond memories of you and Sheldon dating and feel blessed to have known him. I remember one of the first times I was around Sheldon when we all went rollerblading. Then Sheldon, you and I ended up rollerblading all the way up to the temple, needless to say I felt like the fifth wheel...We then ended up hiding and rollerblading back to the apartment complex without him. He showed up about 30 min later... Every time he was around, his goofy personality lit up the room. I remember the last time I saw you guys when you were visiting California. You were just as much in love years later as you were in the beginning of your relationship. And even though I was going through hardships in my relationship and divorce, observing you two gave me hope that there was a person out there that I can have a perfect relationship with. I always looked up to you Julie, from the moment I met you, I knew we would be friends. Your kindness, outgoing personality, unselfishness drew everyone to you. I love you and you will always be my friend. I know there isn't much I can do at this moment to bring you comfort and consolation, but I want you to know that my home is your home, you are part of my family. If there is ever anything that you need, whether it be talking in the middle of the night, needing a place to stay, literally anything...I am here for you. I love you. Be strong.
-Masha
Julie,
ReplyDeleteMy heart goes out to you. I can't believe what has happened and I am so, so, sorry. I remember when I first met you guys, I thought you guys were so fun to hang out with. You and Sheldon are such a wonderful couple. We had great times together. I wish we had gotten a chance to get to know your adorable son, Jace. When we hung out in OR you guys were so sweet to our kids. Sheldon always played with our kids and they loved him. Taylor remembers you guys and your slide in your backyard. My kids love you too! Julie, you are such a beautiful person and I have always admired you. I hope that you know that you are in my prayers and I'm thinking of you at this hard time. My parents also wanted you to know that they love you and are thinking of you. They enjoyed getting to know you guys, and they thought Sheldon was so funny. I like how my Mom said this about Sheldon and Jace.."they are literally on the other side of the door." I love you and pray that you will find peace and comfort. Melanie
I don't know you Julie, but I knew your husband in high school. I just remember him being so nice and thoughtful for a kid his age. I didn't know him well, just had a couple classes with him, but I knew him to be a good kid.
ReplyDeleteMy heart breaks for you. I have a son the same age as Jace. I can't comprehend the loss you must feel at this time, but I want you to know you are in my prayers as a mother, to another mother and wife.
Stay strong!
Tiffany Reed
Julie,
ReplyDeleteI don't know you, but since hearing the news of your family's tragedy, I haven't been able to stop thinking of you and your sweet family. I am an adoptive mother of a 2 and a half year old also and I just want you to know that your adoption family loves you and are praying for you. Kamarie Schiess
Julie,
ReplyDeleteI don't know if you remember me from highschool but since seeing Heather's post I have not been able to stop thinking about you. Like you, my husband and I have fertility struggles and I was talking with him last night about how I wish we could know the why's of certain things. My heart just aches for you knowing how long you fought to have your precious family. I understand you were in the process of your 2nd adoption and I pray that family knows of the love you need right now and you will be blessed with that baby. I also hope you are able to be close to the Lord during this time and know you WILL be with your eternal family again. I am reminded of a talk at the last conference by Elder Cook in which he says "While we do not know all the answers, we do know the important principles that allow us to face these tragedies with faith and confidence" Amanda (Dalton) Stewart
Julie,
ReplyDeleteI haven't been able to stop thinking about you and your family since I heard the tragic news. I am so sorry for your loss. I remember seeing you and Sheldon begin to date that semester we lived together at BYU. You guys were just such a happy, fun-loving couple. There are just some couples that you see and you instantly know they were made for one another. I always felt that way about you two. I also remember reading your adoption profile a couple months back and I was just brought to tears by the depth of love that was so evident in your descriptions of each other. I remember thinking then that a child would be so richly blessed by having you two as parents. I can't imagine what you must be going through right now, but I do know the Lord's promises are true. He won't leave you comfortless. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Robyn Kotter
Dear Julie-
ReplyDeleteSheldon and I were classmates in optometry school. The thing I remember and appreciated most about him was his sense of humour.Even on days when everyone was stressed about a test, Sheldon would crack a joke and lighten the mood for us all. I remember when Jace came into your lives he was so happy! He was showing everyone sitting around him pictures and just had a look of sheer happiness on his face. I know he was young in his career but I know he was a great optometrist as well as friend. I think I can speak for all of us in the class of 2011 when I say that this news has saddened us all immensely. I have had you in my thoughts and prayers and will continue to do so. I am so so very sorry for your loss.
-Natalie Coon
Heaven Lyrics
ReplyDeleteEagle-Eye Cherry
Heaven wouldn't wait for you
However much you wanted it to
Heaven wouldn't wait for you
Heaven....
When happy clouds come down on me
And the sun doesn't find its way
I just close my eyes and I see
I see you, in heaven
{Chorus}
Sorrow I will never be
Knowing you hold heaven's key.
One day I will get to see
you opened heavens gate for me.
Sorrow I will never be
Knowing you hold heaven's key.
One day I will get to see
you opened heavens gate for me.
Like heaven you must wait for me
Heaven Ooooh Heaven Oooh
I live my life from day to day
I would livin it all
And when its time you guide my way
I'll be waiting for your call
I'll be waiting for your call
And I do miss Yesterday
Sharing time with you
I remember what you say
And it all rings so true
Yes I know that, you will be there
Yes I know that, you will be there
{Chorus}
Sorrow I will never be
Knowing you hold heaven's key.
One day I will get to see
you opened heavens gate for me.
Sorrow I will never be
Knowing you hold heaven's key.
One day I will get to see
you opened heavens gate for me.
Like Heaven you must wait for me
Sorrow I will never be
Knowing you hold heaven's key.
One day I will get to see
you opened heavens gate for me.
Sorrow I will never be
Knowing you hold heaven's key.
One day I will get to see
you opened heavens gate for me.
i dont know you mammas but i do feel your pain lots of love your way.... sun is shine'n girl... sun is shine'n
Julie,
ReplyDeleteThere are not words to express the sorrow I feel for your loss. I am so. so. sorry. My heart is breaking for you. Although I haven't seen you much the past few years, I always think of you as another "little sister" and I love you like family! I wish you didn't have to suffer like this and I know that I can't say anything that will make it better - but please know that my family has been praying for you constantly since Sunday. You are on my mind frequently. I have a prayer in my heart for you always. I also have friends that have been moved by your experience and are praying for you, as well. There are so many people mourning with you. You are loved. The Lord loves you. He will strengthen you and give you peace during these difficult times.
My husband has experienced the loss of a brother due to an accident and his words of caution are to not get caught up in the "what ifs" - you can "what if" forever and it only makes it worse. Easier said than done, though, we know.
I love you and am sending a gigantic hug your way. I wish I could do more...
Jenn Bowler
Dear Julie,
ReplyDeleteI was a classmate of Sheldon's in optometry school. He often sat in front of me in class and was always lightening the mood with his sense of humor and bright smile. We were also in the same clinic group 3rd year and on internal rotation together 4th year. Our group always had so much fun working together and I think that was largely in part due to Sheldon's fun personality. I can remember a few short days after Jace was born how proud he was to show pictures to everyone around him with a huge smile on his face. I cannot begin to express how sorry I am for your loss. Sheldon was an amazing person, so full of life and love for his family. I feel very fortunate to have known Sheldon for those four years of our lives. My heart aches for you and your families. Please know that I am thinking about you everyday and hope that you find strength to get through this very difficult time.
Mallory MacRae
Julie, I know you don't know me but, I knew Sheldon in high school. He was so kind and always kept people laughing. As a mother and wife myself my heart aches for you and I send you my prayers. I was lucky to know Sheldon and any woman that would marry him had to be amazing as well. Your little boy is darling and I hope you feel that he is in good hands. My wish is that you feel our Heavenly Father embrace you at this time of need.
ReplyDelete-Beth
Hi Julie,
ReplyDeleteI found out about this tragedy through my cousin, who lives in Shelton. You don't know me but my heart goes out to you. I pray you find strength and peace.
- Melinda
Julie,
ReplyDeleteI am so very sorry for this terrible tragedy that has come upon you. You are in my thoughts and prayers daily that you will feel strength and the peace of acceptance during this time of healing. We don't know why these things happen but know that God will take care of you always. I hope to see you sometime soon in Las Vegas. Take care.
Carol (Heather's Mom)
Julie,
ReplyDeleteI have been thinking about you and your family a lot these last few days. My heart aches for you and the heartbreak you must be feeling. I am so sorry that tragedy has struck your beautiful family. You are, and will continue to be, in my thoughts and prayers during this time of grieving and finding the strength to heal.
Gretchen Erlandsen
I don't want to just repeat what has been said, but, I also find that I have nothing greater that I can add.
ReplyDeleteMy heart is broken for you. I've only met you once at church but I knew immediately how wonderful you, your husband, and sweet Jace were together.
Please know that if there is anything you need, I will do the best I can to help. We have an extra car, if your family needs to borrow it while here... anything else, please don't hesitate to ask.
Our family has you and yours in their hearts and prayers.
With great love,
Denise Moss
Julie, you don't know me. I have two friends who knew your husband in high school in Vernal. Each have shared this story individually and I am completely heartbroken for you. Both of my friends talked very highly of your husband and said what a truly great guy he is. I currently live in Portland, so I'm not too far away from you.
ReplyDeleteI am so so sorry for your loss. Truly heartbroken and tears are streaming as I type this. I don't know if I can add anything to what has already been written. But I want you to know that your Heavenly Father is aware of you. He loves you. Take things minute by minute if you need to. Keep an eternal perspective and know that your husband and little boy are together. They are close to you. I firmly believe that our loved ones who are on the other side of the veil are near us.
I will continue to pray for you, even many many months into the future. Please know that you are not alone and many are thinking of you and sending their love.
Sending my thoughts, love, and prayers to you.
Candy Wilson
You will see them again!
ReplyDeleteJulie, My name is Lesli Ray. I am in Natalie and Thomas' ward. I cried with Natalie when she told me and my heart is so broken for you. Words can never express how hard this must be. I am thankful for eternal families and know that Jace and Sheldon will be preparing a kingdom for you when it is time to be reunited with your sweet family. I will pray for you and put your name in the temple so that you may recieve comfort. Love Lesli
ReplyDeleteJulie,
ReplyDeleteIt came as a shock to hear about the passing of Sheldon and Jace. I am so very sorry for your loss. Sheldon was such a great person and friend. He always made me laugh. I remember when you and Sheldon were first dating at the Cinnamon Tree apartments. He would always talk about how excited he was to get to know you better. We would give him some ridiculous strategies for you to notice him and he tried them all. I have many great memories of those times. Hilary and I both agree that your wedding was one of the most romantic and memorable that we have witnessed. We both spoke of how in love you too were with each other and how all in attendance could see that. We love you and are praying for you during this time of grieve and transition. As you believe, we also believe and know that we will all be together after our probationary state is complete. With all our love,
Shawn and Hilary Jensen
Julie, I don't know you but saw your LDSFS profile awhile back while updating ours and immediately felt of your family's sweet spirit. I was heartbroken when I heard the news and have been thinking about you since. I have no words but am praying for you and your loved ones. May you find some comfort and peace during this tragic time.
ReplyDeleteJulie,
ReplyDeleteYou are loved and being prayed for. I'm so sorry for your loss...
Kristy Roblee
My name is Jeannine Alba Copeland. I knew you and your sister, Heather, in H.S. I know I don't know you very well but I just wanted to give you my heart felt condolences. I am so sorry for your loss. I am a Vegas girl that now lives in University Place, WA (near Tacoma) so I am only about an hour away. My mother-in-law lives in Olympia. I am not sure if there is anything we can do, but if there is, we would love to help. You are our thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeletejulie you dont know me i live in england but your loss has touched me and i want you to know that you are in my thoughts the pain must be unbearable for you but please know you are not alone i and all your friends and neighbours and people who you do not know are thinking about you be brave god bless you
ReplyDeleteDear Julie,
ReplyDeleteThere are no words at such a sad time. I'm so sorry for your loss and I wish I was closer so I could hug you. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. May you feel comfort from the love and prayers that all your friends and loved ones have for you during this very difficult time.
Love Always,
Mary Nay (Brush)
Julie,
ReplyDeleteYou don't know me, I'm a friend of Lisa Roberts. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this tender time. We too, adopted a little boy and have tasted the joys that come from Eternal Families. Our Gospel knowledge gives great comfort in knowing you will be reunited with Sheldon and Jace. My heart aches for you for your loss. Know that many prayers of comfort and the guiding hand of our Heavenly Father are upon you.
May God continue to bless you with a firm testimony of Eternal Families.
Much love,
K. Bates
Dear Julie,
ReplyDeleteWhen Elizabeth told us, both Steve and were just heartbroken for you. Even though we only spent a few hours together last summer, I knew you two were great parents. And that Jace was an awesome dude! We have been praying for you ever since Sunday. I hope you can find some peace soon. It is so hard to lose a loved one. I can't imagine what you are going through now.
And know this might sound trite and all, but you will see you guys again. You will be together again. This life is but a moment. And Heavenly Father will not try us more then what we can handle. And you must be one tough lady!
I know that you have wonderful neighbors around you taking care of you. And I'm sure your family is there too to help you. I pray that they will know what is needed to help lighten your burden and lift you up.
We are with you in spirit.
Always,
Sara and Steve Richins (Elizabeth's brother and SIL)
Julie - May God guide you and comfort you over these most difficult hours and days to come. There are no words to express how sorry all of us at Eyes of Arizona are for your loss. I feel blessed to have had the time i did to get to know Sheldon and to meet you & Jace. I will carry Sheldon's smile, humor, jokes and endless kindness with me forever in my heart. And Jaces endless smile and energy will always make me smile. I pray for your strength and courage for the coming days. Please know you are in everyone's thoughts here in Lake Havasu City. Sending hugs and love to you & all your family.
ReplyDeleteJulie,
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for this terrible loss of your husband and son. My heart aches for your pain and I pray for you everyday that you will be given the strength, courage and comforts needed to make it through this. I really enjoyed reading and hearing about your life with Sheldon as you guys were adopting, and the love that was shared and the desire to grow your family, and seeing all the pictures of Jace growing, It was beautiful! I know that this is a temporary separation and you will be with them again because families are Eternal. You and your family are in my thoughts every day and my husband's side sends their love, support and prayers also.
With Love,
Suzie and Trent Ash
Julie you have not left my thoughts, prayers or heart since Sunday night. I have so much love and admiration for you and your family. Every time I think of sweet Jace I remember I couldn't help but think "he is SOOO handsome" every time I saw him or pictures through the blog. He truly is such a sweet, happy, fun little boy and will be forevermore in my memory. I remember Sheldon being the easiest person for Todd to get along with. Todd's personality doesn't click quickly with most people but Sheldon's fun laid back personality instantly allowed Todd to feel comfortable with him and is one of the few true friends Todd was able to meet here with our circumstances. I too remember he was just so easy to be around I'm sure many knew him better than we did but nothing but great feelings and memories come when we remember every moment we have been blessed to share with your sweet family. Please know just how much we love you and are sending angels your way. I know Gracie has been carried by angels through this year many times and find some comfort in knowing your very own angels on both sides of the veil will help carry you through this remarkably difficult journey. I love you so much. I was so grateful to you for reaching out to me in the short time we both lived in Forest Grove and have missed you ever since you moved. You always exuded happiness, kindness, compassion and love and have missed you ever since you moved. Todd knew when I had gone out with you b/c I was always happier when he got home. Sending love and hugs your way.
ReplyDeleteHi there Julie-
ReplyDeleteSo many thoughts and messages shared over the last few days, but there are a couple things I would love to tell you. It has been a time of many tears and sorrows for all involved, I really can't imagine. Your heartaches and tears are our heartaches and tears. Please know that those of us who are friends and other observers (many who don't know your family) have been changed by the events of last weekend. You, Jace, and Sheldon are in the front of our thoughts constantly. In celebrating their lives and being the example you have, you have blessed the lives of those around you. We have become more prayerful, more meditative, more appreciative of the small things and even the big things, more grateful for the things we have instead of the things we wish we had, more thoughtful and kind because of you, Jace, and Sheldon. Thank you for that Julie...we hope to be a support to you, but you have in turn been a strength to all those who witness your faith and see the loving mother and wife you are. We hope you can feel the strength of prayers and thoughts constantly being sent your way. For every person who knows you, there are 100 more being touched by your example.
Perhaps the thought that has gone through my head the most over the last several days while parenting is, 'What would Julie do?' -- then I take my kids to the park when it's cold instead of staying inside(what I'd rather do), I put away the computer and projects and sit down and play games with them more, I refrain from raising my voice as much, I give them those extra hugs and kisses, I take more pictures...because that's what Julie would do. That's what Julie has done. That's what we will now do more in honor of your entire family. What a beautiful unintended legacy!
Love you so much. Thank you for sharing all that you have. :)
Julie, I never have met you, but I know of this through Emily and I know her through Merlin. Merlin and I went to BYUH together but before he knew Emily, I left before she was there. When I read what happened, I was so sad. We dont always know the answer why-sometimes we wonder for a good long time.I have had people I knew as friends and family go in unexpected ways. My Grandpa who was 92 but still fine, still up in about etc- in Jan 2009, one night he laid down to watch a Jazz a game on his couch, like usual, like almost every day for many, many days- fell asleep but was gone- it happened right in front me too as I was visiting with my sister law on the opposite side of the room. No warning at all. I wish you every comfort both spiritual and physical from your family. May the Lord give you peace. I cannot answer why, but I hope this for you, though I know we never have met.
ReplyDeleteJulie,
ReplyDeleteI met you through FSA in Oregon a few years ago. People are sharing your story and this tragedy all over fb and it's all over the news. Wow, what a tragedy. I am so incredibly heartbroken for you. I am so incredibly sorry. I hope and pray that your tender heart can heal and that you will feel strengthened this week and in the weeks go come. I hope you can feel the love of God and He will especially strengthen your empty arms.
Michelle Coxey
Nothing I can say will ease your pain but after having lost a child a few years ago this book helped me get through it all "Destiny or Tragedy" by Spencer W. Kimball. It will never stop hurting, you will always think about your loved ones but the pain will get easier to bare. My heart aches for you and I will continue to pray for you.
ReplyDeleteI am so grateful to know that through the gospel we have the knowledge that we will be taking many journeys; here on earth and into heaven. To know that Sheldon and Jace have continued their journey into the hereafter with family and friends that have passed through the veil and have been welcomed home. That our binding light of Christ will bring us together again. Our families prayers are with you and your family. It is amazing to see how we can all come together in love, hope, charity, and faith when we allow tender mercies to take over through the spirit. Julie, may your journey be comforted by the spirit, as your family will be there to help your being; their light will shine for you helping you along your way. love know no boundaries!
ReplyDeleteJulie,
ReplyDeleteI have not quit thinking and praying for you and your family since Sunday, when I heard about what happened. You are truly one of the sweetest, kindest people I've ever known and I can't even comprehend what you're going through right now. I got this scripture in an email this morning and I thought of you.
"The day cometh that all shall rise from the dead and stand before God, and be judged according to their works. Now, there is a death which is called a temporal death; and the death of Christ shall loose the bands of this temporal death, that all shall be raised from this temporal death. The spirit and the body shall be reunited again in its perfect form; both limb and joint shall be restored to its proper frame, even as we now are at this time; and we shall be brought to stand before God."
—Alma 11:41-43, Book of Mormon
I hope it's a beautiful service tomorrow and that you have the strength and support you need. For sure, Sheldon and Jace will be watching over you. You are amazing!
Love,
Melissa
(((((((HUGS))))))))))
ReplyDeleteJulie,
ReplyDeleteThe staff at North Plains ES sends all its love!!!
Julie,
ReplyDeleteI have and always will remember how sweet and kind you were to me in Middle School and how your positive personality was so infectious. My heart has been breaking for you since I heard this news. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Erin (Dixon) Camp
You've been on our mind constantly since we got the news Sunday evening. We haven't stopped praying for. We love you Julie! Big hugs from the Hammons!
ReplyDeleteDear Julie,
ReplyDeleteBack in Forest Grove, we were in the same ward and you were my visiting teacher for quite a while. Michael was in the class ahead of Sheldon. I remember sometimes we would see Sheldon walking with Jace in the Baby Bjorn on the way to church. Michael would say we thought about picking them up and then Sheldon would tease him about how the thought didn't count. I got to hold Jace at least a couple of times - I think he was 6 or 7 months old at a Relief Society meeting. He was super cute and special. We love your family - I have been heartbroken at this news... I try to say a prayer for you guys whenever I think of you. I believe that Sheldon and Jace are together right now, and it's just those of us who are still on earth that are missing them. No matter what happens, nobody can take away the wonderful memories of every wonderful day you spent together as a family and with us. I'm glad you are a strong, spiritual lady and that families can be together forever. Please let us know if we can do anything.
Love,
Parisa & Michael Icely
Dear Julie
ReplyDeleteI also had the pleasure to graduate in the same year as Sheldon in optometry school. I really could not believe it when I read the news. I did not participate in a whole lot of activities with Sheldon but the times that we have talked, I found him to be really humorous and outgoing. My heart really goes out to you, and we will continue to keep Sheldon in our prayers. I don't know what else I can say to you but I hope you will continue to be strong.
Mandy Mah
You've been in my thoughts and prayers all day today Julie.
ReplyDeleteDear Julie,
ReplyDeleteI have been devastated by the news and am so sorry for your loss.
I was in Sheldon's class at Pacific, and I remember him vividly for his shy smile, his friendliness, and his wonderful sense of humor. He was uproariously funny, but I do not remember him ever making fun of anyone besides himself. We did not speak much until Jace came along; then our enormous love for our sons gave us something in common. I cannot believe that he is gone.
Oliver Kuhn-Wilken
Julie, You are a true woman of strength, grace and poise. I'm sorry that we didn't have the opportunity to get to know you sooner. You have our prayers and those of our family and friends.
ReplyDeleteThinking about you today. May the Lord bless you with his peace and love through this trying time. You are an amazing woman and I am grateful that I know you. Much love, Niki
ReplyDeleteJulie,
ReplyDeleteI am so sad for you, what you have had to go through and the heartbreak you are having to endure. You taught my son, Trenton in 4th grade at Southland and made such an impression on us. You are so full of love and life and it makes me cry that you have to go through something so hard. I am sure that your beautiful son and husband will be near you and will love you from the other side, until you can be with them again. You are such a beautiful person and I pray that you will be comforted by our loving Heavenly Father, I know he loves you and knows how hard this is. Our prayers continually go out for you.
Love, Lara Stout
Julie,
ReplyDeleteWe haven't stopped praying for you ever since we found out last week. May you feel love and peace from our Heavenly Father during this very tough time. Sending our love and prayers...
Seth & Sierra Jensen
Julie,
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your loss, most people cannot imagine what you have gone through and will continue to go through for some time, however I can, I too lost a child she was 32, older yes but she was my child and the pain is the same. I haven't had the pleasure of meeting you or your family and I am sorry for that I am a Board Member here at Lake Limerick and have been gone for 7 weeks but I heard about this tragic accident and wanted you to know my heart and prayers go out to you.
Julie,
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your loss. I do not know you, or your family, but I have been keeping you in my prayers. I just wanted to say I was sorry. You sound like a wonderful woman, and have an amazing family. I pray God will grant you the strength to press forward on your journey. Please know you will be in my thoughts and prayers...and in the hearts of many. You are not alone, never alone.
May God Bless You.
Sarah O'Gwin
Oh my goodness.. I don't even know you, but my heart is breaking for you. I am friends with Kristen Bell who shared your story. I pray that the Lord with buoy you up and strengthen you and support you through this difficult time.
ReplyDeleteJanis
Julie, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in our hearts and prayers. We live here in Lake Limerick and been praying for you everyday. May God Bless You. Chad & Tammy Anderson
ReplyDelete“There is sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are messengers of overwhelming grief...and unspeakable love.” – Washington Irving
ReplyDeleteI love you Julie. My heart breaks when I think of what you must be enduring.
--Aunt Karen & Uncle Tristam and family
Julie, I knew Sheldon from HS back in the day. He was a great person and I feel so sad for your double loss. I can't begin to imagine what you are going through. May God be with you and keep you safe. I read Revelations 21:4 when I feel sad for a loss. Someday you will all be together. Until then my heart goes out to you and your families. God Bless. Amanda Zubiate Fausett
ReplyDeleteDear Julie,
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for the indescribable loss you've experienced. I have thought about you everyday and kept you in my prayers. I hope that you are feeling the peace and comfort that only our Father in Heaven can provide, but also feel the love and support of all your friends and family. And although I know it can't take away the pain, I hope you can find some comfort in the plan of salvation and know that you will see Jace and Sheldon again. Even though it's been since high school since you and I have talked, you were always so sweet and kind to everyone around you and I know that your husband and son were blessed to have you as their wife and mother.
Love always,
Lindsay Hilbus Stoddard
Julie,
ReplyDeleteI am so sad and so sorry for what you are going through. I too know the shock and hurt of losing someone you love so much. The pain is unbearable and often cannot be described. Unless someone has experienced a sudden loss it is impossible to understand. Although I too have felt this I cannot feel all that you feel. I weep with you and pray for you to carried through all the days to come. We can take comfort in knowing the Savior truly knows and I promise you that HE will be there to carry you and help you. You are a special woman and God does have a special plan for you. He will not leave you comfortless. This I promise you! I am so grateful we got to have you and Sheldon at our house with all your friends, and with our daughter Ashly and Hans. It was a honor to meet you. We will keep you in our prayers and pray that you will be watched over in every way.
Kathy Tawzer
Hello Julie,
ReplyDeleteWhile I didn't know you personally I knew your great sis Heather and your mom was my awesome typing teacher in 8th grade at Guinn. A space S space D space etc. I can always hear her voice saying that repeatedly.
Ever since I heard this tragic news I have had a constant pit in my stomach and ache in my heart. I have cried for you and prayed for you tons. You seriously have not left my mind for a week now. I really hope that you have felt comfort and peace and have been able to feel the embrace from your husband, son and Father in Heaven. As I was reading in the Ensign tonight I had a feeling that I spotted a tender mercy from the Lord for you. This talk by Elder Bednar is probably one of the best talks I have ever read. I thought it came at the most perfect time ever. What struck me the very most was this part
"The Savior has suffered not just for our iniquities but also for the inequality, the unfairness, the pain, the anguish, and the emotional distresses that so frequently beset us. There is no physical pain, no anguish of soul, no suffering of spirit, no infirmity or weakness that you or I ever experience during our mortal journey that the Savior did not experience first. You and I in a moment of weakness may cry out, “No one understands. No one knows.” No human being, perhaps, knows. But the Son of God perfectly knows and understands, for He felt and bore our burdens before we ever did. And because He paid the ultimate price and bore that burden, He has perfect empathy and can extend to us His arm of mercy in so many phases of our life. He can reach out, touch, succor—literally run to us—and strengthen us to be more than we could ever be and help us to do that which we could never do through relying upon only our own power.
“Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
“Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.
“For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light” (Matthew 11:28–30)."
JULIE, when you are in your moments of gut wrenching despair STOP where you are and kneel for help from the ONE who knows PRECISELY how you feel. Jesus Christ knows EXACTLY how Julie Olsen feels and HE will give you peace that no one else can. I plead for you to remember that. In the talk "He heals the Heavy Laden" Elder Oaks referred to this same topic.
He says "“Commune with the Lord. … He is your best friend! He knows your pain because He has felt it for you already. He is ready to carry that burden. Trust Him enough to place it at His feet and allow Him to carry it for you. Then you can have your anguish replaced with His peace, in the very depths of your soul”
At a time when I was struggling with something that NO ONE i knew could relate to exactly, i read this and literally pictured Jesus Christ walking hip to hip, arm in arm with me. I promise you, I felt relief. Often I go back to that picture and walk with him, replacing my doubts and fears KNOWING he is RIGHT THERE HOOKED ON NEXT TO ME.
I sincerely hope this helps you in your future.
I just had the thought tonight that although your son is not watching you and learning from you on this earth you are every bit a mother to him as he watches and learns everything you do, everyone you encounter and everyone you touch. You will continue to be his mother the rest of your mortal life becuase I believe with my whole heart that he will be very near to you and learning from you still. Not to mention comfort you throughout your life. And your loving husband as well.
I don't know you, but i love you. And i love Sheldon and sweet Jace as well.
http://www.lds.org/ensign/2012/04/the-atonement-and-the-journey-of-mortality?lang=eng
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2006/10/he-heals-the-heavy-laden?lang=eng
SINCERELY,
Jessica Miller Nicol
Jayne MIller's sis
Dear Julie,
ReplyDeleteI know how much time Sheldon devoted to his studies and how he worked hard for you and Jace. I taught Sheldon for 3 out of the 4 years he was a student at Pacific. I am so very shocked and saddened to learn he is gone from you. I pray for you everyday.
What I wanted you to know is how much Sheldon was needed by his classmates. Optometry school is a tough and demanding place that knocks the best of students down at times. Sheldon was able to rise above the stressful atmosphere and helped his classmates by providing much needed levity and encouragement. Sheldon was often cracking jokes and always smiling. Even the smallest bit of joy he would display on test days did wonders to lift spirits. Sheldon helped his classmates simply by being himself. Thank you for the support you provided for him so that he could do that. Sheldon left his mark on everyone around him and will always be remembered with a smile.
Sincerely,
Tracy Doll
Julie- My thoughts have been with you since I heard the news. We have not seen each other in a long time, but I have followed the adventures of your beautiful family through your blog. I know you are a strong woman- physically, mentally, spiritually. And though you carry the weight of the world on your shoulders, remember that time heals. All my best to you.
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I grew up with Sheldon and also attended University of Utah with him, I was very saddened to hear of this news and am only comforted in knowing where he and his son have now gone. Sheldon was a great person and an example, to say the least. My prayers go out to his wife and family.
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Hi, Julie-
ReplyDeleteMy name is Hillary Stephens, and I am Drew and Rebecca Stephens' sister-in-law. I heard about what happened through Rebecca last week, and I haven't been able to stop thinking about you ever since. My heart aches for you. I know you are a very cherished friend of Rebecca's, and to know how she is grieving for you makes me even more sad. It makes it that much more personal for me, even though I don't know you personally.
I cannot even express how truly sorry I am for your loss. I have 3 children of my own, and so I can sympathize with your grief. But to have both your husband and child, your entire world, taken from you like that, it just makes my heart completely break to even imagine.
I wish I had some magic words of comfort I could offer to help ease your pain. Please just take whatever comfort you can from the fact that you have people all over the country thinking of you and wishing you the very best. It may seem completely overwhelming and impossible right now, but you can get through it. It sounds like you have an amazing support system. Lean on them, and they can be your strength when you feel like you can't go on.
Again, I am so sorry. But I am grateful for hearing of your story because it has given me a big lesson to never take a single moment with my husband and children for granted. Life really can change in the blink of an eye. I will love more deeply, laugh more often, and make sure that my husband and children know every single day how much I love them and how blessed I am to have them in my life.
Hugs to you, Julie.
Hillary Stephens
Yuma, Arizona
One of Chad and Heathers friends. Very sorry for your loss. We will keep you in our prayers.
ReplyDeleteJulie, You don't know me but I heard about your tragedy through other LDS folks and I would like you know that there is an LDS Widow/Widower group you can ask to join online that will give you worlds of support and love and help with your grieving. These are all people like myself who have lost spouses. There is so much strength there where everyone shares their feelings and experiences and also their gratitude and uplifting thoughts and messages. The spirit is also strong there. You can join right away and participate however you feel. I wish I would have found this site years ago after my loss. I am truly sorry for your loss and I know the Lord loves you and your family.
ReplyDeleteOh Julie! I can't tell you how much I hurt for you. I want to take some of your pain away because I know how deep the hurt can be. After reading some of your posts, I am overcome with amazement by your strength and testimony. You are absolutely right though...the sting of death is made so much easier knowing that you will be with them soon and forever after! You are an inspiration to me and I am sure to everyone around you. I love you.
ReplyDeleteHi Julie. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I put your name on the temple prayer roll last night. You are loved during this hard tome.
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Adrienne Hope Hutchinson
Hi Julie,
ReplyDeleteI just wanted to tell you how much I loved your little family! I loved watching Jace for you for the past two months. What I will miss most about Jace is his happy smiling face. He would never cry while I was watching him. I will also miss his little screams of joy to get my attention. After we would eat dinner we would watch some tv, while we were sitting on the couch he would try to jump over me (most of the time he would land on me) but when i would put my hands up to soften his landing he would say, "Hands down Eivie, hands down". and then I would get up and chase him around the living room saying, "I'm gonna get you!" he would smile and scream and then say "Can't catch me!" When I would catch him I would pick him up and put him on the couch and tickled him.
I loved him so much and I know that we will be able to see him again through Heavenly Fathers Plan and by living the Gospel!
I can't wait to see you again!
Eivie Panzer
Julie, my heart has been broken for you since I first heard of this tragedy. You have been in my thoughts and prayers, but I haven't known what to write. Although I still am at a loss of what to say, I know that I would regret it if I didn't share with you my thoughts about Sheldon.
ReplyDeleteI went to high school with him. I was lucky enough to spend time with him senior year when I was dating one of his friends. He was such a fun, happy person. I just LOVED his smile. I have many memories of him that have, and will always, make me smile!
I was very excited to find him on facebook and see all the many wonderful things he was doing in life. I will always think very highly of him! It breaks my heart that such a wonderful man, and sweet little boy have been taken from this earth, and from you! I pray with all my heart that you will be able to have peace in the plan of our Savior.
With love,
Tiffany(Judd)Wallis
Julie,
ReplyDeleteI am one of Natalie's friends. (We have been friends since high school and we were roommates in Hawaii.) Our family has been praying for you everyday since we found out about little Jace and Sheldon. There is not much I can say but know that you are thought of and prayed for by so many. I know there of many people that don't feel they have adequate wording to even speak at this time, but they're praying for you and your family!
Natalie was actually telling us a few weeks ago about her brother Sheldon that lived in Shelton, :). I agree with the person that said that each of us feels a little of your burden, and hopefully that helps to lighten in any way. You are loved and so are your boys!
Dorthea Brundage
Julie,
ReplyDeleteYou probably don't remember me but we have met a couple times in your mom's ward. I knew Jace from nursery with my son and an outing at the park with grandpa. And then I was made your mom's visting teacher a few weeks ago. My heart aches for you and the rest of your extended family. You have been in my prayers often and will continue to be. Lean on your wonderful Galler/Sutton family, they are truly amazing people!
Tiffany Jenkins
I found out about the blog through a friends, but wanted to offer my condolences. I am so sorry for your loss and will keep you in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
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Dearest Julie,
ReplyDeleteYou don't know me. Your heart breaking story was shared as part of our Relief Society Meeting this morning. I know that as you struggle during this time of deep sorrow, no words of comfort or advice will dull the pain. All I kept thinking while your story was being read was that "she has to know that we love her." Dear sister, my heart aches for you, and although I only know you from the story that was shared, I love you. One of the dearest blessings of the gospel is the knowledge that we are all sisters and brothers, children of our Heavenly Father. I know that all I can do for you, is to pray, and you will be in my heartfelt prayers. I know of no other way to express my love and condolences to you. Take heart, dear sister, we love you.
-Jennifer Urban
OMG, i am going to cry. I did not realize that it was these 2 that past away in lake limrick. I am really sorry for your lost! He helped me with my daughter and step child at the eye clinic in walmart and he always talked about his son and how big he was getting and that my son reminded him about his son! if there is anything i can do, let me know!
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